Just a little spin on GFE here. But a BFE could actually result in a better GFE if you think about it. If you go into a session with mutual pleasure in mind, you're going to get more out of the experience. Trust me on this, it is much hotter as a mutual, sensual experience. It takes two to make it less like a service and more like what your looking for.  

Maybe some don't view the Hobby this way. But if you want to have your world rocked, think about how you can take me to the edge as well and its going to be good. Better than good. More like dripping hot and sinfully good.

Dont be shy. Give more and get more.

Megan X

like clients find GFE in providers?

What do providers consider as "BFE"?

Would providers actually have genuine feelings for her clients? When they do, do they stop seeing the clients?  Would providers actually date/marry (in the traditional sense) a client???

I love when someone comes in and acts as if we are *both* there to have fun, rather than plopping on the bed and expecting me to somehow make their day. It can be as simple as being genuinely interested in my day, like when a client remembered my dogs name when I didn't even remember telling him. Or, I recently went on a trip where we got matching tshirts, just to be silly. The little things that show you are trying to connect with me as well make it so much easier to bring the passion from the base level of how I am in general, to something out of this world for both of us.

Within the context of our relationship, I do have feelings for many of my clients. I worry about the long drive home they have ahead of them, or that big meeting they have coming up. I'm genuinely excited to see many of them, and think of them fondly quite often. But, I am completely unattached and have the liberty to do that a little more than many girls. To me, we spend enough time together, and get to know each other intimately enough that its kind of a given that I will start to care for them on some level as human beings.  

However, I don't let that trickle over into real world crushes. Caring for them as a person is ok. Allowing it to interfere with our real world lives is not. I know why we are both here, and I don't want to ruin the fantasy for either of us.  

I would not rule out dating or marrying a client, though. I mean, we don't know who we are going to meet, and we don't know what the situation will be. I am not looking for that at all, don't get me wrong, but I would not hold it against him if the perfect man came along and he just so happened to be a client any more than I would if it was any other business. I know some women aren't a fan, but I am one of those who is very open anyways, with loyalty and the ability to make me laugh after a long day way above physical faithfulness or or how they choose to have fun. I am in this for the same reason many men are, so I can understand the separation between real life and "just to try it".

I do have many genuine friendships with a good number of my clients. It is not to be confused with love, but it is a relationship of caring , friendship , and mutual respect. I am very fortunate I came across very good people, whos friendships I chersh.  

it is not about what you do but how we do it. we are emotional human being, not animals. to make things messy and complicated is not good, but a good friendship can be a true blessing

Serena x

What I am saying is simple.  For it to feel more like it was a GFE than just a one sided experience, you need to explore and seek to pleasure me as you pleasure yourself. This is going to be a more intimate experience and that's what I think many of you are looking for.  

 This is the heat of the moment. It isnt about developing feelings outside of that. Its about making the most out of the rendezvous and taking it to edges you have not been before. LUST not the other L word.  

Megan Deville

I strongly prefer when it is mutual, a 2-way street, if you will.

Unless you are wham-bam-thank you-ma'am type of guy, a little courting can get far more bang for your buck. There is nothing wrong with pure sex if you are dealing with BP girls (they probably want you out asap).  If you really want this to go like a date, then you need to put a little effort into it.

First, ask her if she likes a glass of wine before going to her room.Then, have some pleasant small talk while drinking your booze. Finally, start making out like two lovers. Most women love to kiss. Start out gently and then gradually use more tongue. When it's time for action, go down on her first unless she initializes the oral part. Either way, a little oral loving to get her juice going always helps. Whether they can come or not, they always appreciate your effort. I do this not just for their pleasures only, but also for selfish reason. I know they will try harder to please me to reciprocate my effort

I aways try to deliver the BFE experience. I particularly enjoy activities that allow for mutual enjoyment. Nothing turns me on more than having a lovely lady use me for her pleasure
Kissing is big for me. Without it GFE/BFE is not possible.  

I'm sorry that I missed your visit. I'm right by Tyson's too  
Maybe next time....

Jd

Sometimes I am in the mood for GFE, others I am looking for a hot PSE or more professional experience, for lack of a better description.

Booked a 2 hour with one of my favorites in Vegas a few years back.  The first time I was with her, it was the first real GFE I had encountered.  So I was in the mood for some more great GFE, and went into it with a real mutual pleasure mindset.

With 2 hours to play, I took it slow and really got into the foreplay, and concentrated on her.  I don't even think I took my pants off for the first 45 minutes.  After the long build up and an extended DATY, she was completely over the top.  I think her exact words were, "Oh my God.  You've got one happy woman on your hands."  She then proceeded to rock my world.  It was the best real connection I have ever made in this hobby.

Damn.  Now I have to get to Vegas again.  I think this stiffy might last until I get there.

I agree 100%.
MD

to explicitly state this is what they're looking for on their website OR, for hobbyists to search reviews that include this type of experience.

I'm sure many hobbyists have heard  from providers "I'm here for your pleasure ... with the implication that they don't want or need your attention in that regard.

 i have found this type of experience hit or miss with most leaning toward the latter.

btw, I don't think this is possible on a 1 hour first date either.

 

Megan/Charlie/Serena - The first rule of chivalry is that you put ladies first in all that you do. For me, I open doors for ladies, hold their chair when sitting, help them with their coats, and in the bedroom, they cum first.
I totally agree with your statement, and have found that ladies respond much better when you treat them as a princess and make them feel special. I don't want to reveal all my secrets, but I try to provide a BFE for them and find that I have ALWAYS been richly rewarded. Combination of me doing my research well and going out of my way to make the ladies feel welcome in my room. It works best in my outcall when I am able to host the ladies. Unfortunately, it is a little more challenging for incalls.

Perhaps you need to try the largehamm experience?