I am not married but have a fairly hot girlfriend who I think is bi. She hangs around a lot of girls and caught her kissing some of them very intimately at the clubs a few times . So here I am thinking maybe I can push her over the edge and have a provider join us for a 3-some? Good idea or bad idea? Anyone tried it?

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KK

Proceed with caution, my friend. And be prepared for some surprises.  She may want "her" more than you!

I think providers are a great way to get right into it, having a threesome when you want isn't always that easy. Also, she's professional...she knows all about it!

But will the girlfriend be okay with a provider?

If this is someone you plan on having a future with, probably not a good idea to do the thressome.  There are exceptions to the rule, but usually ruins the relationship.  However if your girlfriend is just some hot chick your banging for fun, go for it.

I had been getting some vibes from my SO that she may be interested, so over time I have dropped hints to her as well.  She pretty much confirmed she is into it, so I have started to inquire to a few providers that I knew hosted couples.  

Apparently, it can go really well, or really, really badly.  From the wife/SO freaking out at the site of her husband inside another woman to the wife/SO being so into it that the man is left out.  The providers said you want to set ground rules before you go (what contact is OK and what is out of bounds).

I was planning to take her to Vegas or somewhere so their is a separation from where we live.

Hope my thoughts help.

I have not taken the proverbial/literal plunge so keep me posted if you go for it.

I had an lingerie model I was dating and she suggested it. She fine with another woman, but preferred men. I think you better know how she (your SO) with handle a third party that is play for pay. Let us know how it goes.

I have helped someone out with that before. It turned out to be great for everyone. It's just very important that you make sure SHE is the most comfortable, and act like it's all about her.

And beware, she started asking him to get me just for herself after our encounter

...I think there's a review of it here somewhere. It was a great experience for both of us I think, but then I had to go and suggest we do it again.