Saw a provider that looks intriguing to me, and wanted to see if anyone had knowledge of or concerns about. I'm a newbie, but her relatively low price and unblurred face were referenced as red flags by a hobbyist in another post (about a different provider) that I'd seen.
She's probably on the up and up because she is older and a bit heavier. Providers that are older and somewhat out of good physical conditioning will usually charge a lower rate. You red flag should go up when when the provider looks really young and beautiful with a low fee attached to the photo. Hot providers know what they are worth.
Be that as it may, my friend, if there are no reviews, you will have to take your chances.
Strongly suggest you try to find out in advance what is really offered. I heard but cannot confirm that she may be affiliated with a group that offers conversation only dates. If anyone else knows any different, please post here. Her ads say nothing suggestive. I have found that this is a warning that usually is wise to heed.
RED FLAG #1 : no reviews (no hits by phone number, no hits on tineye) RED FLAG #2 : no hint of her services (oral, anal, greek, pse, GFE)
her rate $200/hour is not out of line for a 36 yo thick woman, but I think you might be purchasing 60 minutes of upselling if you are lucky, or a set of stainless steel bracelets if you are not lucky.
RED FLAG #3: newbie cruising ero's looking to TOFTT
This last paragraph is for any newbie reading this thread I don't know your situation, so maybe you are in situation where you can tolerate a misdemeanor bust or do not need to worry about divorce or scandal. The majority of us must exercise some caution. If you cannot tolerate a bust, or don't want to be SCAMMED, the mantra for newbie's is: pay for VIP, see only well reviewed providers, who have been reviewed by experienced reviewers.
Thanks for the advice. I do need to be concerned, and since I know next to nothing, I guess it's time to pony up for the VIP membership to get review details.
As someone who would lose everything if caught, how prevalent is LE activity in the area (specifically northern VA)? And what are chances of catching something from a BBBJ? Perhaps I should just stay on the sidelines....
VIP paYs for itself buy protecting you from scams. if you have a lot to lose, VIP is essential. lots of us enjoy the hobby without interactions with LE. i have no idea what LE is up to in NOVA, and no one else on this board does either. i think we would all agree that seeing unreviewed eros or BP providers is an unwise risk or someone with a lot to lose. there are unmarried, independently wealthy hobbyists who do not need to worry about LE as much as others. let them take one for the team (TOFTT) and see the unreviewd providers (I really appreciate them for doing this)...TY reviewers who TOFTT and then write reviews. without them we would not have new providers to see.
you dont need to sit on he sidelines, but arm yourself with information. get vip, visit self help center and read, read and participate on newbie board. when you are ready to try it.....see a well reviewed provider who has been reviewed by experienced hobbyists. there are plenty of those in NOVA at all price ranges, read my reviews, i have seen a couple recently.
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