While I agree with you that it is frustrating for a lady to get asked questions clearly answered on her site, it is also frustrating to ask something NOT addressed on her site and get a reply that says, "Didn't you read the damn site?"
Let me give some examples:
--Web site says "$300 for 1 hr, $500 for two hours". I ask the fee for 4 hr dinner date.
--Web site says "Outcall is extra, depending upon the location". I ask, "I will be staying near the airport--do you consider that "outside the local area?"
--Ad on March 20th says, "Visiting DC now.". I ask, "I'll be in DC on the 24th, will you still be there then?"
All three are real situations from the past couple months with three different ladies--cities and dates changed to protect the innocent. In all three cases I got the, "Read my website", or "If you have to ask I don't think we should meet" kind of replies. Going back and rereading, no, they were not answered.
Reading literacy does work both ways. I read and reread a lady's post and web site and P411/D-C profile before asking. In some cases I don't think they read their posts before posting.
Fortunately, these are the minority of situations, but they happen (I am on a bad streak so I am venting a little".