I remember back in the day finding a lady who was GFE was a BIG deal.  
Then it was finding a lady who offered anal was a BIG deal.  
Now, it seems every guy wants a girl that squirts.  
Is this a new GFE standard or something?  
Can someone kindly elaborate?  
Thanks

....I don't think it's a GFE standard now though.  
I won't be going out of my way to learn how to do it since it's not a natural ability of mine.  
Though it seems more can suddenly do it now that it's become popular enough.

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Greek is still a top thing to get from a provider. Squirting is something that just happens. It is debatable if it is type of pee. Ladies who truly enjoy greek will squirt sometimes. Do you remember Symone DC(Ebony provider) ? She was a gusher when she got fucked in the ass, lol.

For the ladies greek is one of those things they like or don't like. Some anus are just to tight for greek. I believe their is a certain build for greek. Just like a pussy comes in different shapes and size, same with a anus. One lady that I use to see on a regular basis upsold for greek. When she came back from over seas she could not wait to have another greek session again. It was nice she let me fuck her in the ass at her normal pussy sex rate. She grew up as one of those naughty catholic girls, lol. You know they are trained to take it up the ass to keep their virgin pussy.

Watching the woman getting off than actually seeing the orgasm you'd caused her. I would get turned on by it too

that GFE and Anal are choices..  

If a lady can't squirt naturally, there is limitation to this offering as part of her menu..

I would think that squirting is such a big deal because it's visceral proof that the lady is coming... hard. My G-spot squirting orgasms are those earth shatteringly awesome, full body experiences, and I love it when a lady I'm with squirts, too! I wouldn't say it's a 'standard' since not everyone can squirt, and I only see it being asked about occasionally, rather than something like kissing which pretty much everyone I've ever met loves to do.

As an aside, it's not pee. It has a different consistency, smell and taste, and is produced in the Skene glands rather than the bladder.

I'm interested in seeing guys' responses to this, as well.

Not a non-starter like smoking, but just don't get off on it.

Squirting is somewhat of an ego thing -- wow, I'm enough of a stud to make her squirt! In the end, that's not necessarily the case and is just more mess when you get down to it.

Anal? Well, I keep getting pushed out of butts when the going gets good or can't even squeeze in from the get go, and I'm average in size.

Frankly, I think great oral will always be the true king but that's just me. There's a lot of levels to the BJ, but much love to all the ladies who really know how to put it on a guy (preferrably me).

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Some of it is the appeal of the unusual. Some of it is ego.

Some of it is emotional. Just an honest desire to know the person you’re having a good time with is having a good time, too. Because it is visual, tactile proof of arousal. And orgasm. More tactile than visual for me, because I can’t always stop to look.  

I prefer when it comes as a surprise. Unless the lady squirts easily, I’d rather not know she can squirt beforehand. Because if she doesn’t squirt with me, I’d either be disappointed or be mad at myself that I didn’t do something right. And with the ladies who have surprised me, I had to consciously tell myself to not make squirting the goal in the sessions afterwards. Sure way to ruin a good time, possibly make the lady feel like a living side show, and probably rub her G-Spot into a jangly, twitchy mess.

Squirting is great when it happens. I love it, but it can easily become a distraction.

 
I wonder if some of the interest is driven by porn. I don’t know what’s out there now, but there were a ton of squirt sites about five years ago. Can’t say there were a ton of squirters, though, as some of the money shots came after perfectly timed cuts. Even some of the continuous shots were fake – caught the nozzle of a douche bag hose at the edge of the frame in one “See Her Squirt” video. They were going to fill her while her hips were off frame so she’d have something to squeeze out

Nor have I inquired about anal.
But I do have a guilty pleasure: rim jobs.
I'm sure the thought of giving these disgusts some ladies.
My first experience with this was unexpected (though we did share a thorough shower before) and it was pure bliss.  She was so completely unrestrained and giving, it blew me away, put me in a near euphoric state.  I was so appreciative, I asked her if she enjoyed these too, and she enthusiastically replied yes, so I returned the favor.  Have only been in the hobby a couple years, and have only had 3 providers who did these - but damn do they feel soooo good!

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I have been with someone who squirts but it wasn't necessarily a trait I sought out.  It was definitely a bonus as it seemed to transport her into another gear once she got to that point.  It transitioned the experience from what was already pretty hot into an almost primal, unscripted, hedonistic level enjoyed by both parties.  Squirting or not, isn't that what we might hope for in any of these encounters?

As I am new. And was a bit  disheartened at a few experience's. But give encouragement by you my fellow hobbyist. I found some provider who do both. One give amazing Greek and sometimes squirts during aggressive Greek. And the other is just awesome. She has squirted during blowjob. I dont thing I could go a week without seeing one or both. In a week. I've been thinking I need to book both at the sometime. At lease for new year. Gotta figure how to bring that off.  
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I've been with several that squirt and also had anal a few times and the squirting is more a turn-on for me. I guess I'm weird, but anal doesn't do a lot for me. I was with one who squirted four times in one session, pretty amazing.

I agree 100%.  

Nothing compares to that jet of wet heat on your legs, chin, chest, hands. Or that “spz… spzz… kshhhhh… kshhhhhhh!” Or a lady’s helpless moan before, during, or after. Her breathlessness, her spent, blissed out face.

It’s SO hard not to aim for that every time