1) I find her ad, either on Eros, or more likely, as a post on the TER DC board. I look to see how she presents herself. If "cums" or "XXX" is anywhere in the ad, I pass.
2) Then I check out her website. How professional is it? Has time and thought gone into it? Or does it look like it was put up a couple of days ago?
3) Finally, I look at her reviews. In this age of inflated reviews, she needs to average 9/9 for me to consider her.
If all of the above checks out, and her photos are attractive to me, I reach out for an appointment.
Like Yokuzuna, I have no problem paying more for a high quality escort experience. What do you get for that extra $$$? A lady who takes time to get ready for your date and isn't finishing up from her last date. A nice four or five star hotel room as the incall location. A woman who dresses up for you because it is a real date for her.
I'm interested in hearing from others on this board about what their decision making process is like when deciding to see a provider? I've been doing this for approaching 20 years and mine has certainly changed. This is not a conversation about chemistry...I'm talking about the initial, first time appt.
What types of things do you weigh, reviews, photos, prices, personal reference? How much is too much? How good does the first appt. have to be before making the second appt, or not?
I'm always fascinated by the higher priced providers, what makes people spend so much money? Is the experience really worth the extra money? I know what my spend limit is and I'm curious to know how other people make their choices.
Here's mine:
Photos and profile - I like big boobs, so it's worth it to me if the provider has a nice rack! Not that I won't see a provider with small boobs, it's just a preference. Reviews - yes, I know that people lie and that YMMV is always in play, but at least you can see if the proivider is legitimate and that she isn't going to scam you. I look for sensuality during the session and if there is a routine that I'd enjoy. Also, you get an idea of the types of rules a provider has. Typically, I don't consider one bad review a deal breaker unless there is only one. Price - This is a biggie for me, not because I'm cheap but more so because I know what my limit is and that you can get a very good session with a provider for what I consider a reasonable price. This is not to say that any of the higher priced providers are not worth it to some men but in the end, a beautiful woman does not equate to talent and so, for me, looks, nice websites and beautiful photos will only go so far...just say'n.
Anywhoo, I'm just trying to start a conversation here, so if you have something to contribute, be my guest.
I also make sure that the girl doesn't have any dirt on her on the message boards. Some of the girls are drama queens and are always talked about on the RO board.
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