When you PM asking for information on a lady, you need to be aware that without any board persona (posts) or reviews, I for one, am not going to share information about any lady with you.
Always asking for information about ladies but not sharing any (by way of writing reviews or responding to board posts) raises a H - U - G - E red flag for me.
Mentioning you "know things" or "heard things" about a lady and trying to get me to confirm or deny them is not going to work either.
Lastly, just because I wrote a review of a lady does NOT mean I know her life story, what her dreams are, where she's from or what her real name is. I do not expect a lady to share her life story with me, why should you? Taking this a step further, if I was trusted to receive this information, why would I then share it with you or anyone else for that matter?
So guys, take this advice, it's free so take it for what it's worth ... participate on the boards and write some reviews. This shows me and everyone else you are legitimate. I do not mind sharing some info with you if I know you or can easily check you out. But in any case, NEVER ask me to share personal information about a lady. Even if I do know, I will not share it.