How many of you have had the experience of a threesome? I would think that while the fantasy is there and porn certainly raises our expectations, the reality is that the third wheel scenario will potentially play out. I mean, one of the three is going to end up the least engaged and see the least amount of action as two connect and enjoy each other while trying to also satisfy the third. Otherwise, maybe its equally distributed and you are all taking turns. But there is always going to be a favorite of the three right?

I have had the recent pleasure of several GBG threesomes with the same two ladies when I lived elsewhere.  

I've had the pleasure a couple of times, the last several years ago. I found I was like a kid left alone in a candy shop, wanting everything I could get my hands on but, after a while, finding myself settling in on one or two choice pieces.  After it was over, I had a shit eating grin on my face, and an rumbling ache in my belly.  Even still, I wasn't sure if I was satisfied or not.  

where you can concentrate on each seperately before/after enjoying both together.  It's a rush, but not completely satisfying.

Definitely on my "bucket list" though

Was lucky enough to have that experience once in my personal life. Long time ago,good times. Would love to try it again within the hobby...any takers?

but depends on the providers and their chemistry.  See my reviews.

It's hard enough to have a dinner date with two women, and trying to pay equal attention to both- hats off to Hugh Hefner lol

Posted By: KL69069

 
   

Posted By: Megandeville

How many of you have had the experience of a threesome? I would think that while the fantasy is there and porn certainly raises our expectations, the reality is that the third wheel scenario will potentially play out. I mean, one of the three is going to end up the least engaged and see the least amount of action as two connect and enjoy each other while trying to also satisfy the third. Otherwise, maybe its equally distributed and you are all taking turns. But there is always going to be a favorite of the three right?

 I'm pretty sure it's on my bucket list.  It is a hot fantasy, but there are potential pitfalls too, as you suggest.  Does someone feel left out?  If it is with a regular and a newbie, how does that change things with the regular going forward?  As a hot experience to recall, or perhaps something less than that?  I think it's probably best if all 3 people know each other beforehand and agree on roles.  Is the 3rd person intended to be just that, or an integral part of things?  Does she service the woman as well as the man?  Who gets the orgasms and cum?    
   
 Though I like the idea of two women giving me attention at the same time, I prefer the sound of all 3 persons being equal, like the vertices of an equilateral triangle.  I would want the women to interact strongly.  Another scenario is for my regular and I to seduce the other woman, making her our sex toy.  
   
 Some highlights for me would include:  
   
 Having the women 69 while I do one doggy and the other licks my balls.  
   
 Having a woman on my face and another on my cock in CG, with them kissing.  
   
 Dual BBBJs and ball licking simultaneously.  
   
 Being rimmed by one while having BBBJCIM with the other.  
   
 Sharing DATY on one of the women.  
   
 One of us doing DATY and the other DATO on the other woman.  
   
 Mish with one woman while the other sits on her face and DFKs me.  
   
 A 3-way oral daisy chain. Ok, everybody switch!  
   
 Lots of possibilities and material for further discussion, especially with some wine.    
 

I've done both FFM and MMF - the latter is much better in my view.  With FFM just not enough hardness to go around and the 2nd F - feels deprived.  Whereas, with a MMF - plenty to go around and the session lasts so much longer.  Of course, some guys are too shy to "nut".  
What rates are you offering for a MMF experience with you, lovely girl?

...but to assume your involvement in the fantasy. Whoo-ah! So. Here are my thoughts (from the perspective of a 3some virgin). 1) There are enough erogenous zones per person to keep everybody engaged at all times...first thought. 2) Given that I'd be the first person "done", it would be incumbent upon me to stay engaged even when the spotlight isn't on me.  Not a problem since...3) I believe that giving is equal to if not more fun and important than receiving. 4) Since the arrangement is more professional than emotional, the downside of jealously, etc should be mitigated if not eliminated.  
Certainly there may be favorites, but I don't see that as a negative. In fact, it could be a huge advantage if the session turns into a round robin of two-on-one scenarios vs one-on-one-on-one. I believe the maturity level and self-esteem of the participants is a huge factor.  5) Can't wait for theory to meet reality!!!

Getting that perfect balance is tricky but certainly not impossible. I have found that usually there are two people who know each other a bit better than the third. And in many groups it is actually this third person who sees more of the action, of course individual circumstances will vary. When the action is two providers to one hobbyist, usually the focus is on the hobbyist. When it is just three friends, again there are usually two who know each other a bit better and probably engage with each other more often  I have never been in a situation where all three have never met before. It almost happened once when I was out West. I had contacted a well-known LA provider for a session and afterwards learned in convo that she had another client who was interested in a 3way session, wondering if I would be willing to join? As it turned out I did not, and I must confess one of the reasons was that I really did not know her that well and of course had never met the other gentleman. But that is an odd situation, at least in my experience. And, as always, YMWV!!

My experience is limited to FFM, but they are very fun, especially if the ladies are really into each other as well. While the "third wheel" situation is likely to happen in the civilian world, it is much less likely in the hobby. If the ladies are professional, which all of you are, they recognize who the customer is and make sure that he is satisfied and not left out. This is one of those situations that you don't leave to amateurs, it definitely calls for professionals!

Don't go cheap and don't go with girls that are not known for being bi.  My two pathetic FFM experience was from BP (I know I was a newbie!) that offered cheap 2-for-1 deal. It was pretty much me fucking one girl and the other girl yelling sleasy porn lines at my ears and telling me to finish. No mutual touch at all and at no times two of them were touching me at the same time. Very mechanical and blow-load-and-get-out deal.

MMF threesomes are pretty gay

I mean, I'm open to it and all...but honestly, I have enough trouble parallel parking  

Never have had the opportunity in my private life and have yet to partake in my hobby life. Sleeping with one gorgeous woman is amazing in itself... I can only imagine how incredible it would be to have two beautiful women at the same time. Watching the girls go at it before joining in would be beyond incredible. The cost is somewhat prohibitive but it is definitely something I want to experience ASAP!

I've done it several times, and experienced the good and the magical.  When it works, it's the best... it seems to work best when both providers play together on a regular basis

I have had the pleasure of getting down with a lady and gent a time or two and it was an unforgettable experience (in a good way)! I think this environment is the best to do it in, so carefree and fun, at least it was for me. Considering all of my girl crushes on some of the ladies around here lately, I can only hope to get the opportunity again soon.

This is one of those times where you need true professionals to have a great experience.

Exactly how I love em lol

I agree, try everything once. You never know when magic might occur and if it doesn't, so what, at least you can check it off your bucket list.
MD

It's time
MD

Safe to say, you have thought this through. Time to check that off your bucket list K.

Thank you for your input. All points make perfect sense.  I can't wait for my next trip to DC !!
MD

That is a odd situation. Hope you have a great session with the provider!
MD

DATY contest with all winners! Can't go wrong with that
MD

I tend to forget the guy is there tho, lol ;-D

and I was young and dumb. I  called CDC and asked them who does doubles with so and so. Mr G. (asshat) gave me couple of options.  I picked one. It turned out to be so-so. All the activities were there, but the chemistry was missing between the girls. I am the only one to be blamed for not doing the homework...

This is all about fantasy, right? What one doesn't get at home, or regularly, can be found and experienced. So I love a good threesome, expensive tho they may be. I've had several and I think some criteria make certain episodes really stand out. Two providers who regularly worked together and were good friends (if not lovers) took me to heights I never experienced before. They were fun, experimental, passionate and wanted to play in every single way. I found myself in a sex swing hanging from the ceiling and these two beauties enjoying me and each other while I just hung suspended, in ecstasy.
Most recently, I had two gorgeous women who didn't know each other and so this was new for them too. I wasn't sure if they would be as interactive as I liked so this might have been a bust. I asked if they were each into women and they said "yes," and one, this sexy blonde spinner who is very popular here in DC, looked at the other and said, "I have been dying to get her clothes off." I nearly busted in my shorts. Needless to say we had the most memorable time.
I have found unfortunately some providers who advertise they do interactive doubles, talk a big game, and then when you are there the rules come out or there is no bi-play. Its a shame. But for the few times that has been the case, the episodes that have really worked have been unforgettable.

I really enjoy FFM threesome porn but my experiences have been just marginally better than 3000ma's -- with one or two exceptions. In most cases, the providers have taken turns satisfying me and didn't really engage directly with each other. I still like the idea of threesomes but it can be hard to find two ladies with sufficient chemistry to justify the additional expense.

Yep, third party.  Get a third person and have a party.  Bash, soirée, orgy.  Yep!

I've been part of about half a dozen threesomes - almost all of them of the MFM variety. Double-teaming a woman who really enjoys men is awesome. I know it must seem strange, but there is also something really hot about seeing a woman getting fucked by another guy and waiting my turn (or even licking her during for extra pleasure). Getting together with married couples is best because they tend to be very uninhibited and kinky.  

Glad to see you still having fun.  I bet the guy doesn't forget that YOU are there.