Over the course of my hobbying, I have seen scores of ladies, both incall and outcall.   After all these experiences, there are certain things that I find either helpful or irritating.  I hope this helps some ladies as it isn’t meant to be a bitch session, but more of an informational item. Gents, feel free to add in. Ladies, I know you there are things that please and irritate you too, but please don’t use this as a vent space.

I even provide toothbrushes 🖒

1. Yes, please have scent free soap and shampoo.  One person I met didn't have this and my hair smelled flowery when I left.  I wasn't happy about that.

Turn off TV .  
In fact prepare the room with soft background music . If you really wanna impress , candles are always a nice touch.

I'm extremely low volume (even my p411 has been disabled) & if I'm going to do something I want to do it right...feel free to inbox me any other suggestions you may have. I'm extremely reserved..  Can't help it..  Thank you for posting this

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This thread isn’t for everyone. I’m glad that you get it. I think some providers that I have met just didn’t think about some of the little things to elevate the session. Ladies like you set the bar high. ❤️

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....I love having and doing all of this just for the guy to not use ANY of it. So fun .  But better to be prepared and safe (rather than sorry).  
Since we're sharing.

Lately I have been bringing travel size bottles of my typical soap and mouth wash along with a medium sized towel.  

Lol you’re better than me. I leave 1 of each and take the rest out. Mainly because it simplifies things during cleanup

I do the same and bring my gym bag. Not sure why anyone would deviate from their normal routine.

In addition to the scent free soap/shampoo, request minimal use of scents (perfume, scent, etc.)  it's hard to mask on your clothes.  I usually go to the gym after an appointment so the sweat covers some of the scent, but there have been a time or two where my clothes went straight to the washer.

It's the occasional passive-aggressive dudes I was mostly joking about who use up every single towel.
I do have extras stashed away even though (even tho i'm 1 a day 95% of the time (even though that wasn't the point lol)).  

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In addition to the scent free soap and shampoo, something that has been noted previously is to go easy on the scents (perfume, body wash, etc.).  It can transfer to our clothes and a time or two, my clothes went straight to the washer.

LOL I’m with you on that.  

I'm not sure if you want me to comment on your pet peeves or I supposed to tell you my own, so I'll just tell you my own:

Some of these points apply to hotel incalls, too. I've started bringing travel-sized (or small) bottles of mouthwash with me when I'm hosting in hotels, and I've had a few guys mention it appreciatively.

I've spent much time preparing myself and the room for your arrival.  The candles are in place, the bubbly is chilled, the snacks are plated and I am ready. You text 10 minutes after your arrival time to tell me you're going to be late. That's so rude and thoughtless.  

For me candles might be over doing it, but I do really appreciate the soft background music and the TV being off. If you are not sure what to play "Sade" is always a good choice.

And please go light on the fragrances. Most of us have wives or girlfriends at home and if you show back up smelling like a sailor on leave, it triggers questions on the homefront.

Or just have to go back to work!  

Is an outcall... cuz they are not going back home LOL or if they gift it to me.

The fines can vary from 250 - 500 for lighting a candle in your hotel room. If you use an incall and light candles, be sure to use unscented ones. Lots of people have issues with strong scents.