The thing that turns me off most is a bad attitude. As soon as you step inside their room, try to determine what the provider is like. If she gives off negative comments and a bad attitude, then leave immediately. Do not attempt to work things out and see if they progress.
A good provider will greet you with a hug, a kiss, or some form of pleasantries when you arrive. She'll get to talk to you for a little bit to get to know you, or, she's already butt naked and ready.
She doesn't demand the money right away, and she doesn't direct you on how to perform. I'll give you an example. She immediate ask for donation as though that is the only thing on her mind, she instructs you, yup, instructs you to lay down with no form of foreplay, can't suck on tities cause they too sensitive, can't touch pussy, can't touch body cause your hands are too cold, can't do this, can't do that. Well, WTF is a client suppose to do then?
Some of these girls got a routine goin, and take advantage of suckers. If you leave right away, she'll learn. Even though you've wasted time, you'll save yourself a headache, money, and a disastrous session. If only all men are like this, these providers wouldn't exist. However, because some hobbyist do take their bait, they continue to exist, and pull the same shenanigans.
One method to avoid this is checking for their reviews. See if they have good reviews or not. The second method is to determine their behavior as soon as you enter their room. Try to have a conversation with her, and if she is friendly and provide good feedback, then stay. If she's not friendly, doesn't take directions well, and gives off a bad attitude. Then leave immediately. Don't try to work things out and expecting it will get better.
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Those are some of the exact thing she said to me, she instructs you, yup, instructs you to lay down with no form of foreplay, can't suck on tities cause they too sensitive, can't touch pussy, can't touch body cause your hands are too cold, can't do this, can't do that. Well, WTF is a client suppose to do then?
You are right I should have left, but I knew this was part of her tactics, so i stuck it out just to spite her, but if I run across this situation again, I will for sure take your advice!!!!
I had one FBSM/PV provider who kept giving me rules as if she was my 2nd grade schoolteacher. When that mediocre session was over, she gave me her business card. As I drove away from the hotel, I rolled down my car window and threw the business card out into the wind.
She still advertises on Eros and in one review I recently read about her, she actually mentioned to the client that her business had dropped.
I wonder why........
If she did that to you, then she did that to other clients. Some of these providers have a routine that they do. What I do is, check for their reviews. If they don't have reviews and I decide to TOFTT, I always try to assess the initial encounter. That is, who she greets me when I enter.
If she greets me with an attitude and actually instructs me, then I will leave. Its no use trying to work it out, and think that it will get better. It never does get better. So, when a provider doesn't greet you with a friendly welcome, just leave. You will save yourself money. Even though you have wasted time going to her place, its better than wasting money and not enjoying the experience.
If we leave immediately, then these providers will reflect on their mistakes. If we continue to contribute to their behavior, then they will continue to take advantage of unsuspected clients.
I just do happen to be such a provider....