I've seen a few ladies over the years and they almost always say not to discuss any 'business' over the phone or email etc. I always respect that. However, I really, really would like to have lady dance for me during our session while I'm seated and give me a lap dance and then slowly strip and take things to wherever they go. Whenever I suggest the idea that it's a huge turn on for me, most ladies say they don't dance or they can't dance etc.?  

How can I find out if my fantasy/turn on will be provided? Any ideas? Or if any ladies reading this think they would love to help out, please respond here. I do not have VIP membership...