I've booked an overnight session a few days ago with this one provider I've been seeing for a while. I've spent a lot of time with her and thought I knew "a bit" about her to feel comfortable booking an overnight. I normally book hotels for overnights because, well, it just gets messy if you know what I mean. In other words, I don't wanna clean up after myself, that's why I book hotels.

Lunch, dinners, good sex, it was great. Somewhere in the late of the night, past midnight. I went into the restroom and saw some "drugs" on the bathroom sink and some on the toilet. Was kinda surprised. She just came out of the restroom about 15 minutes ago and thought I wasn't going to come in. Whatever the reason, she was outside and I was inside the restroom and she probably forgot it was there and was going to go back and "store" it.

So, it was a hardcore drug. Not marijuana, but a hardcore drug that I will not go into specific with. Went back to the bed and felt guilty that I'm partially responsible for assisting her with her drug habit, at least the financial aspect because of the fee I paid for the overnight appointment. Some drugs, I don't mind, such as alcohol or marijuana. I don't use marijuana, but it has become mainstreamed into society that I have accepted it. Again, I don't use marijuana and never will. However, the hardcore drug she used alters the mind and distort reality in such a way that continuous use will have permanent damage.

I've decided that I will NEVER see her again because I felt guilty contributing to her "habit". Drove her home and felt myself morphing into Bill Cosby. Not sure if she was aware that I spotted the drugs, but it was gone when I went back to the restroom an hour later.

So, it's not my business what another person does with their body. However, I did felt guilty so I will NEVER book another appointment with her. If you found out that your provider was on hardcore drugs, would you continue to see her? It does suck because she provides such a great time, and I mean a very memorable time, each time. Thoughts? Thanks. I know, this topic kinda sucks because of the depressing nature of it, but reality is reality and I'll only know if we talk about it. Thanks. Oh, she has many great reviews. Oh, please do not PM me asking who she is. Thanks.

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I understand your position on Pot.  It is accepted more readily in today's society.  Additionally, in small quantities any legal ramifications are at worst a misdemeanor.

The point I would like to open for discussion is this.  Should unsafe or illegal behavior, drugs or otherwise, that may put us as hobbyists at risk be reported on these boards or in reviews?  I for one would not be comfortable being with a provider who's behavior could put me at risk for serious legal troubles, so I'm not sure how I feel about a hobbyist not willing to report this kind of behavior, understanding the desire not to ruin the reputation of a provider who offers an otherwise positive experience.

Any thoughts?

Girl OD's and die?...now what?....how you explain the situation?....
Actually, how have girls handled guys that have heart attacks or died?...always figured the girls drag em to the curb and put a liquor bottle in their mouth, ha.  

Girl on hardcore drugs could also bring about disease etc.  

 

Not worth the risk IMO.

Dollar Menu seemed to be OK with pot, but not other drugs.  We can't pick and choose what we approve and disapprove of from the providers.  Remember, we are only paying for a service for a set amount of time.  If the drug use interfered or degraded the service, of course you can put that in a review.   Merely reporting just the fact that she uses  it is another matter altogether.  Does the word snitch come to mind?

But your kidding yourself if you do an incall with an escort and assume their are not drugs on the premises.  I would guess there's a good majority who can't give those 8, 9, or 10 rated sessions they give us without some mind altering assistance.  And if you're getting 7 or below service, I would fathom the number of those girls using something more toxic than weed is very high

You said that the date went well. So why are you meddling in her personal life and why are you cutting her off? This is not a place nor are you in the position (as a client) to play the moral card that you wont support her habit.  

**NEWSFLASH** You are not supporting her habit. You are paying her to provide a service and apparently she did/does her job well. Whatever she does with her $$$ is her business not yours.  

If you want to cut her off, then I suggest that you walk away from the hobby all-together. Many people outside the hobby look at it like you are exploiting her even if she did not have a drug problem.  

If she does her part well and the drug problem is not getting in the way, she is not asking for loans or advances, then I suggest that you pretend that you don't know anything and continue to see her as usual. Please don't be the Johnny-Crusader guy because this is not the place for morality.

Please don't take this as if I am flaming you because that is not my intention.

808

I would hope that you do the prudent thing and clear the airway and call 9-11. If she is not breathing the do what needs to be done CPR etc. When the EMTs get there tell them what happened and if the Boys in Blue want to talk to you then Lawyer up

Happened a number of years ago.  Was seeing a provider and unknown to me her room mate was on drugs and also selling.  Had the police break in in middle of our activities, not because of providing, but because of a drug sting.  I got off clean but was potentially a very difficult situation.  I personally stay away from anything that smells of illegal drugs in any form or amount.

Well said sir. How can you ask someone to come spend the night with you and not bring everything they need to spend the night?

Not that I indulge myself, nor do I judge anyone else's view one way or the other - I think this is an issue where everyone is perfectly entitled to their own opinion...

But are we putting a little coke in the hardcore drug category? I'm just curious. I would tend to agree that is probably heavier than pot. But it's not the same as meth or injecting heroin right? Certainly pot is more "mainstream." But I feel like there are a decent number of social circles in the area where a little Bolivian Marching Powder every now and again isn't completely frowned upon, right?

Just curious...

I agree that what she does on her own time is her business, and not yours, but when she bring it into her business then it is a problem.

Look at it this way, if you brought hardcore drugs into your job, and did them in the middle of the day.
What would happen to you, If your lucky you would be you might get the company to send you to rehab.
Most likely you would be fired on the spot, and the police would get involved.  
You are hiring her, she should act professional, and doing drugs in the middle of an appointment is not professional.  

 
Most ladies put on their website that will not do an appointment if the guys shows up, drunk, stoned or coked out.
Shouldn't we expect the same from the lady ????  Is that to much to ask.  

If a lady need to be drunk stoned or coked out to do an appointment, don't you think it a good sign that she has burned out and needs to get out of the business.  Yes I know easier said then done.  If you want to come back with all the pressure of being a provider, you need some kind of stress release, fine but is drugs the only answer or is it just the easy way out.

Just my 2 cents, for what it is wort

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As I said before and will say many times.

I only post a photos of a provider if it a reply to a post about one.

All other photo's are taking off of blog sites and are not providers.

 
Sorry to disappoint you again

 
Yes....It's the liability factor in the way the world is set up. If you own a factory and a drugged out guy hurts himself falling into something you still have to deal with a legal process you may lose. Also, a drugged out dude may not provide appropriate customer service and cause a liability or loss of business.

In the land of law suits and lack of personal responsibility in general society blames other people. You sell high fat food and people sue you because they got fat, lol. Business owners wish they didn't have to care as long as the job got done.  

 

 
Besides, I thought the high of getting paid was the main goal for the girls...otherwise McDonalds is always hiring

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If by chance LE came it's a whole new ball game of charges. If by chance she OD'd yea how do you explain that?

It's her life, ok. But I wouldn't want it in my hotel room so do all she wants, before visiting me please.

We can't pick and choose? Are you serious? We do that before making an appointment don't we? We pick and choose the one we want to spend time with. Getting caught with pot isn't that big of a deal unless you're security clearance is at risk. Getting caught with heroin, you'll be spending a whole lot more time with her but just not in the same cell.

Hmmm....

You can't mention drug use in reviews.

I wrote "she must have been on something" because she passed out with a vibe in her pussy and my thumb up her ass and had been acting spacey all night-- review was declined for the above phrase.

Risky behavior is not just possession and possible busts, but speaks to other activities which could be a health hazard.

Would anyone KNOWINGLY see a provider using/possessing drugs?  Probably not, but who would KNOWINGLY see a provider that had an STD?

You don't know in either case unless you have first hand knowledge, so you roll your dice and take your chances.

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I think my mouth is still on the floor from 808's response. Wow, I think I opened a post in the wrong neighborhood..lol Im out. :p

To make Lamont post as often as possible!!

Well I think every hobbyist got the right to see whomever he wants just like every providers has the right to turn down who she wants. So if you are uncomfortable seeing someone or being around someone who uses drugs by all means don't see them anymore. My motto has always been if you don't stand for that kind of behavior in your personal life why pay to deal with it in fantasy life. On the other hand if you suspect a lady or gent of doing drugs or any other illicit activity and you have not seen it with your own eyes and they show no signs then you might want to not yell it out to the masses cause you may cause someone unjust harm.

We all are human and we all have vices or this community and board we love to visit would not exist. I have seen many gentlemen with questionable morals and judgement but who the hell am I to Judge!!!

 
 Just my $.05,
Insatiable nickole

And some should have been using lol. Maybe their acting would have benefited

I dunno, you make accepting drug use a preference when that is something that doesn't have to occur or can be avoided. I only think of preference in the hobby as it pertains to something that can't be hidden or avoided like race and age to a degree. Girls definitely don't post:  "Sexy 22yr old Latina that shoots-up" haha.

You're renting an hour of her time for your pleasure. You're not marrying her. She's not marrying you. If the sex is good, go back for more. If it bothers you to the point you don't have fun, don't go back. This is all about pleasure, after all.

Renting an hr? I'm pretty sure Dollar Menu was referring to a longer session.  

Obvi this info comes out over extended sessions. People do see girls for multiple hrs, overnights and for weekends as well....

Many of us use TER to get information which helps to reduce our risk (e.g. financial, legal, health, etc...) A provider using "hardcore drugs" during our time spent together puts us at a significantly higher risk then one who does not so to me it does in fact make all the difference regardless of her performance.

Screening out or cutting off providers who put us at higher risk (whether the risk is financial, legal or health) is not meddling or playing a moral card but instead, is a good exercise in self preservation that in my view more people should practice.