I am often torn between returning to one of my ATFs--because I know exactly what to expect--and seeing someone new at the risk of wasting my money. When it comes down to security vs. novelty, which do all of you tend to choose?

It is always fun to see new pussy.

I really like to see solid performers again and again but in the end aren't we all interested in new experiences?

if I really hit of off then maybe a few more times.  The search for new is half the excitement of it, right?
TER is my best resource to keep the 'waste of money' aspect non-existent.

only if they are well reviewed.  I'm not into TOFTT.  Not at my age!

Yeah, both.  If an ATF lives in another city and you only get to see her once every month or two, that makes it easier.

I'd go for the ATF unless that newbie has reviews  I can read to get
a good  sense of what to expect!

the fantasy wears off and you start seeing a truer representation of who she really is (and who you really are, to her)

So, one or the other will lose interest. For me, it depends on the lady. It might be only after one visit or, like what happened recently, I realized after the 4th time we weren't really compatible.

Only bad thing about "new" is verification

I dont have an ATF so that's not an issue and i don't worry about "wasting my money" because  I don't TOFTT.


I will say, I'm more inclined to see someone only once now (even if I have a good time) and not see them again than I thought I would.

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