Very interesting to see how this board will promote a provider. The provider gets popular and everyone can't wait to see her. For whatever reason the provider does not get the pack of people to see her again. The pack goes on and samples the next provider. Providers don't like this behavior because it is like everyone is comparing notes and they go on. Reminds me of the college days where 1 guy would get the girl on campus and everyone else with follow the lead. To keep a few stray dogs away from the pack the provider has to do things to keep them cumming back. Some stray dogs from the pack can get so hooked that they become very valuable for repeat visits. Providers make sure you make those valuable stray dogs happy so they don't have to run with the pack all the time. Remember beauty gets the first appointment and attitude creates the desire/craving for repeat visits.

That is why references are so important. Then as a client you have to be able to perform. I had one provider tell me that I should give lessons to other players on how to make love to a woman. I was like wow, did not realize it was so bad.

I have had a couple of providers comment that I should be charging for them for DATY, but no one has gone so far as to say, that I should be giving lessons.

Although, when it comes to DATY, there is no middle ground. You either love doing it or you don't. If you do you can be great at it. If you don't love it, it is always obvious to a provider. That you are not a true patron of the "P".
If you don't love doing it, you should probably just skip it.

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I didn't think any of us said such things

xoxo

Red

Well one did say it to me. I have not seen you.

I think I'm going to add that to my list of white lies that I love!



-- Modified on 2/23/2006 5:21:53 AM

People can say anything, the real deal would be if any provider have returned part of your donation!!

a provider offered my $50 back once. I did not take it back of course.

The provider let the session go over an hour for free. I offered to pay her the extra hour and she said no.

...she knew she was in for a good time when I unhooked her bra with one hand about two seconds after I first touched it.  Seems a lot of folks haven't mastered this skill.

You got that right! But I've found that the men who claim to be the best at it, are usually the worst. Also, I believe most of the men who go down on escorts must take that chance because they really love DATY. I mean, hell who knows what else has been there that day and they're willing to go there. But just because some love it doesn't make all good at it.

Being great at it simply means doing some research and talking to the lady (provider or not) that you're with. Assuring her that you really want her to enjoy it and you will not take it at all personally if she gives you pointers. I find it difficult to direct traffic, so to speak, especially in the business because you're paying for a service and we, as women, have been taught for years that men's egos are fragile and we should not hurt their feelings by giving them direction. But the main point for all women, I do believe, is when you're playing with the clit, remember it has 8,000 nerve endings...the most in any one part of the body, and if you're tweaking more than a few of them at once it can become INCREDIBLY uncomfortable. Like leap out of your skin uncomfortable. So, when you find the spot that makes her moan, stay put!

Okay, sorry I went off on a tangent!

Meg

Many years ago I had provider offer me a job. She ran an service in DC and NYC. Wanted me to come to NYC to handle her female clientele for her escort service. Back in 95 stated I could make $500 to $750 an hour. I could work weekends etc. Even if it was BS was a nice ego boost but she was serious since she often exchanged services with me for me in return for DATY.
I gave it serious consideration.