I have received two emails in 2 weeks from wifey's... please log out on your phone, computer, ipad, or any other device before you walk away and leave it for snoopers..... just my 2 cents. and trying to help you out...

to join in on the action.  But she can't be a fat bitch... She has to be sexy and hot.

Sorry, couldn't resist...

And some of them threaten with "legal actions"!  
I feel like replying them :   "yeah! sure!  catch me if you can!!"  

The best part: I still see the husband later...

In any case, Angelina is right!  be careful gents!  

LDL

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....that when you shut down your computer you get the message "are you sure you want to shut down" if you get up before you click yes.......you puter is still on and open.  This is how I was busted.  My SO came behind me and clicked "no" dont shut down puter.  When she did that my Eros, and TER webpages were on the screen.  Yikes!!

Also, the gent in question probably did not clean his history folder or cache, hence allowing anyone behind him to see and go to the websites he's been to.

In addition, make sure you log alllll the way out of your email account.  Sometimes when you pull up the email provider webpage, you're still logged in to your account eventhough you closed the email browser (without logging out.)

Finally, if you noticed, when you sign-in to some email accounts, namely yahoo, the box is automatically checked to "keep me logged-in."  Make sure you disable this feature.  

The only real way to prevent this is to do all your surfing in "private" mode as it hides the history of where you've been and to completely log off all accounts and completely shut down your computer after use.  Most are use to keep computers on 24/7.

Cant quit,
Just so I am sure? where is pvt mode tab?

Received an email in early August when she thought I was the new love of her husband's life... received ignorant texts in October when she realized that wasn't the situation. A women with a plan is more determined than Seal Team 6. Please cover your tracks.

On Internet Explorer you can click on the tools icon then select "safety" then select "in-priviat browsing"

...how awful those moments must be for you ladies with a distressed wife on the other end of the call.  Must call for some serious tact, which I know (all providers I have seen, at least) you to have.  

I can assure you my wife would only be making one call - to a lawyer - and her hands would be washed.  No BS gal, and doesn't waste energy.  Calling a provider just wouldn't change the outcome in her mind so it would be pointless.

(shudders)

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I've made way too many mistakes recently, got sloppy....and it caught up with me finally. It started with the ATF I had early this Summer. I broke all the rules with her and since then: gave her my real name; sent her things from my home address; fell "in love" with her and even hoped she would quit the biz and consider marrying me; used my smart phone rather than the hobby phone; didn't always clear out my phone log or text message history or internet search history. I stopped doing everything one is supposed to do (you do really dumb things when you're in love, just as dumb as when you're plain horny)... And then one evening I went to bed earlier than wifey, after leaving my smart phone plugged in to charge (and not having it locked up). Well, she had been suspecting something all those late nights I had been staying up to text, call, research ads/posts of the ATF and other providers (after the ATF had broken off contact with me). Fortunately, I awoke and found wifey reading before she had gotten too deeply into things. Boy, did I have "some splainin'" to do! Believe me, confession may be good for the soul...but NOT for the marriage. If I am lucky, I am PERMANENTLY cut off...but that's only a little bit more than before, hence my eventual commencement of hobbying...
What hurt the most (for me) was seeing a tear roll down my wife's cheek last evening.... and I thought she had stopped caring for me long ago with all of her bitching, criticism, insults, humiliation of me and her controlling/limiting of sex.  And yet I never got so much as a tear of sadness or joy from a single provider I've been with these last six months...
I so wish things could have worked out differently. I share this with you guys because there are a number of lessons that might be learned here.

I use a separate hobby laptop. SO thinks it is work. Then you don't have to worry about history, which you can never totally hide.

.....if they knew how hot and sexy you are

Or maybe they'd try a little harder at home.

I have a separate computer but even so I alway delete the browsing history everytime I shut down  I also use a separate cleaning software to get to the other stuff such as deleting clipboard, trashcan and copied items.  So cleaning your browsing history isn't enough, you need separate software like CCcleaner to help get everything else off of there.

I just got an email from Jill Kelly

LOL @ easternalterego.

GENTLEMEN. if you get caught you deserved it. if youre still sneaking then keep at it. talking about it, posting about it is not sneaking.

and you who fell in "love" ... you fool. i feel bad for you but i feel like you deserve a punch to the face. ( i m sure you would say the same to me.)

some of us say "stay safe"

LETS STAY SAFE!

should be enshrined in the "Hobbyist Hall Of Fame". It's saved me SO much headache when it comes to deleting my history, checking my private email, surfing TER, BP, etc.

@Rusty,
Usually-I DO NOT RESPOND!
Luckily, she did not have much to go on so I said I had never met him and I was a private massage therapist - on the first one..
than the other one called me names-except her guy was a submissive and  I responded and told her if she wanted to join I would show her how to dominate her guy for free. but i offered no other services than dominatrix/submissive sessions.......... yeah right!! ha-ha-ha.. and happy thanksgiving -