it's my birthday is this month. This year marks my 20th year in this "hobby".
I've seen a lot, spent a lot, had a lot of fun and even been robbed along the way; most of all, I've learned a lot about this little sub-culture. I thought maybe we could all share a story or maybe a word of advice to help out the newbies. I didn't have the advantage of being able to reference a site like this when i started so I figure maybe in the long run, we might meet a friend or two that will bring a smile to our face or even keep us out of trouble.
I thought I'd start with my most memorable best and best-worst experiences and you can share whatever you want.
Best place I used to visit:
I used to go to this place when I first started years ago in Philly. It's not there anymore but the guy who ran the place really knew what he was doing. The women there were all attractive and super sexy but better than that, they all really knew their way around a man's body. They didn't just give you a FBSM, they f_cking worshiped your body. Most of the time they only offered a HJ and a body to body rub, but man oh man, they could use their hands and knew what I liked...slow and sensual and well, I always left there counting the days 'til I could afford to go back. A couple of times I was offered more "treatments". A tip here or there was always very appreciated and brother, they really showed their appreciation! I don't ever remember having a bad or even average session. It was rumored that the guy who ran the place was gay and trained the women in "massage techniques" from Holland, (that's where he was from). My god, I miss that place and have never found anything quite like it. Maybe I was just young and horny all the time or maybe it really was that good.
Best-Worst experience:
NE Philly. I was young and dumb and stupid enough to be in a neighborhood that I had no business being in. I had gotten the ad out of the philly city-paper. Remember that this was the mid 80's and the Philly mob pretty much ran all the parlors back then. The "massage" place was in the type of building that had "assault" written all over it. I went in laid down the "donation" and proceeded to have a super-sexually charged session with a not-so-pretty latina but man oh man, she had a f_cking porn star body! I only ever saw her one time but it was a nasty-raw-primal type of session. She was bitchy and rude and very aggressive and no nonsense. It was intense. So, afterwards I gave her a little $30 tip after our session, (believe me, that was a lot of money for me back then). She looks at me and demands 20 dollars more and so playing the tough guy, I say, "that's all I got honey." She leaves the room and starts talking to some guy in the other room. He starts yelling in Spanish and I hear rustling around in the other room down the hall. I grab my shirt and take off...I was out the front door and down the street as fast as my Lilly-white ass could run. I never found out what he was yelling about but my suspicion was my ass was going to get kicked for not producing more money. Never again did I (or would I) venture into that neighborhood.
Ok, let's hear from you...good, bad, worst, best, weirdest? Advice, stories, situations, etc?
Only been at this about a year, maybe nne different providers and one with whom I repeated maybe a dozen times. So with that limited experience as a preface....
Even at my ripe-old-middle age, there is apparently much that I have not yet experienced. My first provider was a she-can't-even-be-possible blonde with rock hard natural D's, legs that ran from Anchorage to Zurich, abs that bespoke her primary vocation as a yoga instructor and red leather thigh high boots. And me in a semi-drunken stunned stooper. Anyway, she is going down on me and I asked her to put her ass in my face. I am dining at the Y and I start fingering her back door. All of a sudden she is gyratung and not moaning but screaming in pleasure. Then it happens. She starts squirting. As in, I just might drown and die a very happy man squirting. I had HEARD of such a thing, but had never experienced. This is the best sexual experience I have had, PERIOD.
Worst? When the young lady I had seen many times retired. We all understand going in that the intimacy facet of the business is something that is rented and is "just for the moment". So much of intimacy is based in trust, the greater the trust the greater the intimacy. When that is taken away, whether in a personal or professional relationship, it leaves a void that is not easily filled. There is no way to get that emotional fullfilment without the requisite vulnerability, and that is an additional cost to being a hobbyist (and I would venture, a provider).
hmm. i've been hobbying since 2005? i am an old school amp monger. miss them very much. i joined up with ter in december of 2011, very different and an excellent resource. i've found an interesting comaraderie amongst ter members. i don't personally know anyone but i think we all share a commonality....
best: definately when i had a 3 some at an amp. (was that possible? yessir! the madame even approached me about it... ) it must have been a slow night. 1.5 hours at $$$.2 with two gorgeous girls, one sitting on my face and one sitting on my stick.. it was great. 1st time of a few threesomes. i felt like a pornstar sticking my prick into one girl then sticking it into another.. two soaking wet pussies stacked ontop of each other ... whooooo yeah. then there was of course my first incall hobby moment. she was a doll. i think probably one of the hottest girls i've had the pleasure of uh being pleasured by. this is definitely a different game. i kinda miss the roll calls, and i kinda miss that weird smell in the air... i definately miss trying not to pop a boner during the table showers... but i don't miss driving into DC.
worst.
jeez. where do i start? i've had an amp chick criticize me about my weight. at the time i was 230 lbs @ 6'1". she said she wanted to do doggy style so i wouldn't crush her. yeah. i that was whack. i asked her to leave and send in the madame. she reluctantly did so. as i did occasionally drop by for late night sessions, i would see her some times, she would always look away and walk by. i suppose by gones will be by gones. i think i actually heard not too long ago that she was still working there... worst incall? well that young lady was drunk. had a very smelly bottom side... and was messy. it could have been worse, but in my short hobbying career i suppose there is always more to come.
any ways happy bday to rcshobby. and to the fellows happy hunting.
20 seems like a pretty young age to hobby, but what do I know. Seems like there are more younger guys hobbying these days due to technology. Some providers told me they had to turn down some younger clients because they physically looked too young.
I'm a yuppie, but not that young as you. You did you decide to hobby BTW? When I was your age, I was in school and getting free pussy. Now, if I want free sex, I gotta deal with strings, and some girls don't even know what the word freedom means. There was this one girl, she constantly asked me where I was at, what I was doing, and constantly monitoring my activities. Those are a few reasons why I chose to hobby. As for you, why did you decide to hobby at such a young age?
I'm 47. Started when I was 27.
I'm a yuppie, but not that young as you. You did you decide to hobby BTW? When I was your age, I was in school and getting free pussy. Now, if I want free sex, I gotta deal with strings, and some girls don't even know what the word freedom means. There was this one girl, she constantly asked me where I was at, what I was doing, and constantly monitoring my activities. Those are a few reasons why I chose to hobby. As for you, why did you decide to hobby at such a young age?
Lee of Quantico!
Old timers here will remember her name and a few unfortunate souls may have actually paid her a visit. I made the mistake one day and once i got there I knew this was going to be the worst hobby experience of my life. Unfortunately, I had a raging boner and was not to be denied. I ended up letting her (at least Im pretty sure Lee was a her) give me a BJ while I avoided looking at her and pretended it was Brittany Spears (when she was young and hot). It worked, I finally blew a load, hauled ass out the door and never looked back!
My best experience? Too many to pick just one!