I have no problem providing references. However, if it's been months since Ive seen you, even a few weeks, please contact me first so I can remember you and provide the reference you desire. I choose not to save any info so its not like I have your info on file somewhere(I just dont think thats very safe at all) so unless I see you regularly I might need to be reminded of who you are(silly blonde here, bad with names!) so I can provide the reference you want.  

Always helpful to let the provider know if there was something unique about the session.

Are you somehow inferring that your experience with every dude wasn't earth shattering for you too...?

lol!  
in certain arenas... that's like trusting the internet to be true ... lol

Yep...or Fox News.

I could not agree more with you!  
 

.....for good reviews without ever seeing the guy. Actually heard this on several occasions. Besides one cannot  
go on whitelist alone. Gotta be super safe.

I agree 100%. I am whitelisted with one provider I did actually visit way back when I was new at this hobby but I truly appreciate what you ladies do so I have no problem giving references. Would rather be safe than sorry.

It works both ways. If you can't trust the whitelist then you shouldn't trust the reviews either. There has to be some level of trust in this process. i've been whitelisted by 6 ladies and never once have I asked. I see the whole whitelist and review processes as a way to protect our privacy.  I actually had a situation occur a few days ago. I wanted to see a lady from an agency and offered my TER whitelisted profile as a screening info. They wanted more information than I was not comfortable providing, so I thanked them for their time and moved on. I'll use a lady as a reference but only as a last resort. I hate infringing on people's personal time so I avoid it if I can. If I request a reference I text to alert the lady that I'll need her to vouch for me. But only as a last resort.