only seen one phony looking ad on P411 not so on BP where you see many

P411 has a terrific screening system and I rely on it heavily when touring in the US - TER comes as a close second as it gives me complementary info.

Don't worry, it is actually quite quick to get approved on P411 once you have managed to create a reputation - thanks to just a few gentlemen who don't mind you not being on there.  

I would be much more in favor of seeing someone if they had even one review from a hobbiest that I knew had been around and I trusted their feedback.  

P411, just tells me information about you and maybe makes me feel for comfortable that your not going to rip me off, but a trusted review is going to make me pull the trigger to come see you much quicker than anything else.