Yeppers

A long time ago, I learned my lesson... Rule #1:  Never use your personal cell phone.  If the provider is nuts, its fairly easy to get your personal information.  The worst thing I ever experienced though was I used my personal cell phone, called to ask about availability and rates and the chick went nuts like you mention.  

In a matter of minutes, she figured out my home address, put my number on some crazy sites and my phone was ringing off the hook for hours, texted a few neighbors and gave them my name and said I was dating TS escorts, and even had a few thugs come knock on my door at 3am-ish.  That was way to much for me, crazy person. It was not like I was playing games.  I bet the session, if you ever made it that far was horrible.  

I have heard of providers taking pictures and telling the client to pay up or they will send the picture to their wife or something crazy like that.  

Thats why it is so important to read reviews before you head out.

Is there such a thing? I have  a bad experience with a girl I saw regularly, I miss an appointment and she went bat shit crazy. I removed reviews I posted of her and she  when off again.Always wondered if she posted something like she threatened.

I don't know the board, but I have had ladies tell me that they don't want to see me based on reviews left about me indicating that I prefer BBBJ. I mean, who doesn't right? And recently a lady I have seen a number of times told me my number showed up on some board she belongs to as being uncle leo. She said she would leave a comment that it was BS and that I was a good client but who knows if she ever did.

Thanks guys.  

Being single and already on social media with pictures of myself and other girls both genetic and trans, I've never been concerned by the girls who try to post something on my social media. Even to say they're going to call my family becasue who are they going to call? If they publish my name with, # with discriminating pictures that's a different story.  

But this was TS Lana of Dallas, I checked her reviews and didn't see any red flags. I text the day prior and thought we made plans for 6 or 7pm and that I'd confirm an exact time the following day after I could rearrange my schedule. The next day I text her she asked for nude photos I said no, then ones with me holding my chin, fine, then hinted of a deposit I politely avoided.  

Then I didn't hear back until a little after 5pm, the time I'd have to leave to get by O'hare from downtown. She got a bit rude saying she never got the pics, I'm wasting her time plus we never had even a tentative time set. After I reschedule my afternoon meetings, went home to shower to go and meet her after, with her growing attitude, I thanked her and said sorry to trouble you I'm just going to go home tonight and she went psycho.  

I was mainly concerned that there was a board or site, which it sounds like there is and from there they or other could take your info a bit further. If we never had an appointment why was it such a problem for her. I was very understanding, she could have had other cancellations, but she kept texting me so I blocked her. But not before she sent pics of my name and number and highlighted my text messages back to me and so on.  

So, I'll probably get a burner phone or internet number and be done with that, a good suggestion. Thanks again guys!  

There is definitely at least one web based source for TS providers to check up on potential clients before agreeing to meet. I have not seen it, I have experienced it. While it has presented a challenging and uncomfortable situation for me - I am glad that they have some kind of protection. You dont have to look far or wide to find the horrible stories of violence and some murders of trans women in this country. Its a shame.
Some time back I had reached out to a beautiful, well known provider some time back and she texted me back accusing me of treating other providers badly and "leaving the money in the car..." stuff and that she wouldn't see me. I said "what are you talking about?" and she replied all about how she looked me up and "we have a site you don't know about..." and all this. My appeals to her that she has me confused made no difference. She has now blocked my number.
I can only guess that my number either a) had been used before (burner phone) or b) a provider I never saw posted the wrong information and used my number instead of the person they wanted to flame on the board.
Later, I saw another provider who told me more about it and for an up-charge would post some positive things about me and she sent me a photo of the post to show she had.
Its not perfect, and it can cause problems, obviously, but its really smart that these people are looking out for each other in my view.

Some of the Thai girls that visit the motels near John Wayne talk to one another about their clients.  I saw a new girl and she said she already knew about me.  

That's all good information to know.

I agree it's good for providers safety and to know there are some checks and balances for them. They are in a much higher risk group for both personal health and safety.

It sounds like they may have a bit more unreliable info as others mentioned, wrong contact info or names etc. In my case,  I didn't even see the person and she showed me a few posts of my info as a tie water etc. I tried to write a review but couldn't because I hadn't actually seen her or lost any money via a deposit.  

I'll have to nonchalantly ask girls going forward if they check on potential clients in any way?  

Thanks again, all good info!!  

There’s a paid app where you can look up phone number to find name and past provider comments.

The Thais have become a generic borefest.  They used to be a treat.  I'd rather take my chances on the pretty Latinas walking on Main St  in Santa Ana.  

There is and I’m on it.  I left a location numerous occasions because I felt a scam was pending, or it was a bait and switch.  Some providers have refused to see me because of it