Yep

Whenever a provider says they only have interest in dealing with gentlemen of certain ethnic backgrounds she/he is branded as a racist? but when a hobbyist says how he's only interested in a specific ethnic group's it's cool and people start suggest girls they should see?

In my opinion those are to completely different scenarios.......

Provider Scenario:  That person definitely has the right to choose who she has an encounter with, when someone points the racist finger it typically is not related to their ad, but something what happened when they tried to meet, etc.  I might label that as discrimination but its thier body and thier business and their right as much as its not a warm and fuzzy message.

When a customer states they like a specific ethnic group, that is so so so so so far away from being racist.  Its their preference and they too have that right to choose.

Now, one time I met a latin lady, saw her multiple times, she saw me with a black girl at a bar and wanted to spit on me the next time I saw her and she said she would never touch my body again because I was with a black girl.  Is that racist?  You Bet!

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Expressing a preference based on race is viewed much more negatively if the preference is contra to the favored racial group(s).  Racial attitudes have been so muach engrained in an uncritical public by the media, academia and public policy that most are unaware of the double standard in their own views and their disparaging attitude toward those who do not 'drink the kool-aid'.

Usually those objecting to providers having an interest in a group are just pissed because they are not members of that group.  Since being a racist is 'bad', they hurl that epithet at the provider.

Disregard this nonsense and go for what you want.

it's a stupid double standard perpetuated by men who have nothing better to do and want thing to go their way. Obviously these men have small minds since they don't understand freedom of choice goes 2 ways. The girl has a  right to choose who she sees. I think it's stupid when guys get upset when they are denied just move on. Then these guys cry racism from what i've seen the girl chose correctly when these men cry like bitches can you imagine how much of a bitch he'd be during a session.  

Seems pretty obvious.

All other things being about equal and assuming you dislike mechanical performance, would you select a provider who expressed a preference for attributes you posses or one who preferred those you do not have but said that she'd do you anyway?

Wot?.  Wanted to spit on you and refused to touch you ever again, yet there was never any indication you did any more than had a friendly drink with the Black girl in question...She built an entire scenario in her (clearly twisted) mind about what she assumed you did with the other girl, based on no credible evidence. These are not the indications of a rational mind or personality. The wild card here,  is, since she had seen you multiple times and felt a "claim" on you/your $$,  may be an excuse for leverage against you. Like when a girlfriend up to no good "suddenly" finds every excuse to find fault with you to (Illegitimately) justify the breakup she is seeking to create (usually after she's been bangin' some other guy and wants you out of the picture)...Bottom line is her behavior was nauseating to the Nth degree...

And there's the rub, SServicceman...If a girl say, prefers Nordic types and you fit that bill, she may be turned on to you when you walk in the door and rock it on you real well..but...You are actually nothing special to her, as it could be any guy with that look walking in and she would rock them just as hard, because you are a fetish object to her, not an individual.....
On the other hand, if you don't fit her bill but she is turned on to you and rocks your jibs, it means only one of two things:
a) You really are special to her, because your charm and skills overcame her prejudices and opened her mind to something new in her life experience...
OR
b) She is an actual clinical nymphomania head-case total slut and would spread for any mammal or reptile with an erection...

As Sigmund himself once said: "Sometimes a cigar is simply a cigar"....