So, I've been in the P4P game for a while.  I mostly do transgirls on P4P, so I am asking this question here.  My question is, why do guys give the gift before the deeds are done?  In my one BAD experience and in every rip-off review I've read, the guy gives the money over first.  After my one bad experience, I learned to NEVER give the money first.  I have providers I see regularly and STILL only give up the dough when its over.  All I do is show it and either put it back in my pocket and keep my pants close or put it on a dresser that I keep my eyes on.  That way she either does what she supposed to or gets no cash without having to initiate physical violence.

While that's definitely safer for the client, it's much too risky for the provider.  Way too many clients are also scammers, and they are the scum of the earth.

Personal feelings from me. I also see a couple of ladies regulary. I always do it at the begining. I never hand the money to them. I put it on a dresser where they know it will be. I feel it cheapens the experience by doing it after. Ho! Their tip is always given up front. I have never been disapointed.