Transsexual

why a postop?? dont get it
ruffolino 10404 reads
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can u guys enlighten me? i just underatand the concept of why a guy would be interested in a post-op ts..
its already complex enough to understand the attration that stright men have for trannies--though it can be rationalized in many different ways--and im sure its different for different people....but i just dont understand the attraction of a post-op transexual.. isnt the dick part of the allure and fascination?? thoughts please!!!!

I used to wonder this very same question,  especially when I would see ads for post op t-girls.  I then realized this question should fall into the "who gives a sh#t" catagory.  Why are some men attracted to very large women? Why are some men attracted to women with blonde hair?  It's all a matter of taste and no one can explain that.

Well your right in saying there are lots of complexities to all this fascination men have to both Pre-Op TSs and Post-Op TSs. But you can't just say it is all because of the eh..hemm "unit?"
I mean why are there so many differnt types of providers out there?, Beauty is wherever you find it!
I know a lot of guys come to me because even though I am just like any other female, there is still an air of taboo with me. Other guys see me because they do see me as just another female provider, and some men rationalize that because I am a post-op and dont have a penis, they  are still safe in thier own sexualty. Even though I personaly don't feel a guy would be gay just because he saw a pre-op. Another thing is I NEVER take my femininity for granted like some genetic women do. I celabrate the fact that I am finaly the woman I was suposed to be all along. So I take care of my body and spirit everyday.I know I am just starting to break open  the seal here, and I am sure there are a few guys around that can add even more to all this?

ess_var14635 reads

I think for a lot of guys, it's the whole "Wonder what that'd look like, feel like, etc?"

As Kylie said, it's pretty well known that both Pre- and Post- op TSs tend to "work their femininity" a little more than GGs.

Finally, while I can't say it's a universal thing, but most men see TSs primarily because they like some aspect of the whole TS thing. For some it's being topped. For these guys, a post-op brings nothing to the party. But...for a guy that appreciates the knowledge of the male physique that TS's possess, a post-op's lack of a penis is sometimes a plus.

In addition, many guys like TS's because they like the tight sensation of anal sex. In many cases (though I can't speak for all), post-op girls are equally open to anal either because their pussies are not as resilient or out of habit/preference. Again, the lack of a penis part can be a plus for some guys.

So, like most things, there are many reasons.

For most though, it's the variety card.

Just my thoughts...MC Ess Var

But they  are  advertise  as  genetic  women.. some  such as  the beautiful post  op Kylie  in San  Diego are   very  upfront about  it.,   others  opt for going  "undercover" so  noone will  ever  know .  (unless you  ask them) Thalia (on  eros san  diego) and so on.

Thanks voglio!! your a sweetie! I have actually thought many times about going "under cover" but I hear all the horror stories about girls that do that and get outted?
One thing about the post previous here is the gentleman said something to the effect that (WE) TSs still love the anal thing? Well truth be told..not all of us dated men prior to transition, And I have never liked that. But I can and do accomadate good size men in oyther places HeHe. Thanks to my surgeon!!
But yes there are soooooo many facets to al this, and I think it is great when we can actually inform and educate you guys a bit here. Thanks again!!!

ess_var11262 reads

I'm sorry, I was not trying to over generalize. In my personal experience, the post-ops I've met continued to enjoy anal sex. On the other hand, I know anecdotally of many MTFTS who were or are not open to sexual relations with a man until after SRS. Like the woman that keeps her virginity until marriage, that's a very personal and, I would think, difficult thing that should be admired, if only as an act of great sacrifice and difficulty.

Cheers,
MC Ess Var

I gotta say to me the answer to this is not very complex. I'm attracted to genetic women, post and pre op transexuals but not men. I've been with several transexuals but none in the relationship of provider. I'm very picky and if they look masculine I'll be quickly turned off. My first incounter with a trannie she was a knockout who I comfortably took in public and no one knew, sexaully she was almost ashamed of her dick and her goal which I think she accomplished was to have surgery. Sexually, I did nothing with her dick and at that time in my life would have not been open to the idea. Still, I greatly enjoyed myself with her because she combined the beauty of a women with the intense sexuality of a man. To me, thats the key. As time has gone on the past few years I do enjoy a fully functional TS but I am also very interested in post op TS's because I love the beauty of a women combined with the lust of a man.

OK you guys so have it! :-) Where have you gentlemen been all my life? If any of you ever get to San Diego we will have ALOT of fun! Thanks for the inteligent post you have all made. Cheers!!

See kylie, you're supposed to like anal sex, why won't you ever believe me!! :)

Kisses to ya sweetie

I was tricked my 1st time,
vannessa/lisa
nuvia/nancy/esmarelda/lalani/selmah/bella
and many more
i was just curious after that.
post op are not womanly its just a fantasy

To say the least. I believe in to each his own. I will say that this Post op lady from San Diego seems like one of the nicer providers to visit the site. I wish some more pre OP TS were as nice and would participate like her.
Personally, I doubt that I would see a Post Op TS. I tend to like the Pre-op for a couple of reasons.
First is the variety.  Second, I find it kind of fun sometimes to see an attractive, passable, feminine woman who still has a penis, especially one that totally works.
I am not into being topped or topping, just the experience of something differant and some lite play.

actually I have seen some that are passable, but I can always see or notice something  even if at a different angle that not or is not femine... such as brow ridges, feet size, voice, waist  and the manner in which they gain weight. some times its the man made vagina.
the post op's i have seen look prety good and some times better then real females but i tend to always see some strong features
there so many who don't advertise as post op that guys see on these boards and review them as a real woman , then after reading there reviews you know they don't see ts's or post op intentionally.

To me, it boils down to basically one thing -- femininity, with confidence in who they are running a very close second.
Yes, a coy and playful submissive spirit, intimate moments, along with possessing an uninhibited innocent aura about her, make the whole TS encounter and fantasy come together also, but it ALL still hinges on how feminine her behavior and attitude is, be she a pre or post-op.
I've yet to experience my first encounter with either type of transgendered beauty, but I must assume as a virgin at this point that an encounter with a pre-op would offer a level of anticipation and excitement much different than an encounter with a post-op, as the pre-op encounter would present itself with a world of thoughts, feelings, and well, possibilities, I never knew existed before. On the other hand, I suspect just the novelty of an encounter with a postop TS would also bring about a level of beautiful excitement Ive never experienced before also ... Heck, I've gotten a big high from just conversing to a couple of feminine, sexy TS women over the phone in the last few months, be they a pre or post-op.
Summarizing this: To me, it is more about a TS's feminine attitude and behavior and not whether they possess a cock or not. That's secondary. The most potent aphrodiac is that which developes between our ears I guess, as well as different strokes for different folks, huh ?
Whichever TS I encounter first, I'm sure it will be time well spent. :)

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