All of a sudden all the girls on Backpage don't want to mess with the brothers. When did this become a thing? Don't we have enough racism in the world? My question is what is really behind this? Is it universally bad experiences when black guys are involved? Is it just too much dick on the brothers that they make the girls have to shut down early for the day after seeing a brother? Please explain the logic of excluding a good portion of the your loyal clientele. Aren't tgirls discriminated against enough themselves? Can't we all just get along?
they're less likely to hassle, ask for their money back or get violent if service is substandard; they are more easily controlled, more compliant and more likely to have more money to drop.... has nothing to do with race, or dick, or Mr. Civil Rights Warrior.
Although my associate "sserviceman" made some good points around the perimeter, I will get down to where the rubber meets the road. It “Became a thing” when the girls chose it to be, and it is nothing new. Your question is what is behind it?. Can you handle the truth?. I seriously doubt it, but I will forge ahead, nonetheless from my experience as a Blakkman dealing with this stupidity...
Let me be brutally direct...
First, you are dealing with BP level girls. That should be a clue, Sherlock...
Next, you are dealing with shady characters to begin with. ROB is their middle name...
Furthermore, it only takes a few arrogant ("Black") morons to foul it up for the majority who are seeking a "special encounter with good intentions in mind...
If there is a "racism factor" at all, it is that percentage of morons who create the conditions where the girls can point and justify excluding "Black Guys", due to the lowbrow behavior of the few, and extend that universally to all Black guys, no matter how classy and decent they may be. I submit that it should be obvious with how a man carries themselves, but in the real world it does not work that way. There are agendas to be served.
Therefore, you have two general groups: Girls who would rather not deal with Black guys to begin with, hiding behind the veil with a "legitimate" excuse; and girls who prefer not to deal with Black guys because they have had too many negative encounters with the morons. One can legitimately be called "racist", the other can be legitimately be called "Time wasters and flakes will not be tolerated". You see, it is not so cut and dried to simply toss out a "race card" and complain, there are more nuances than that in play.
In short, when it comes to Black guys in this sub-culture, it is easy to "lump them all together" and say one is representative of the so-called "group", thereby making exclusion equally easy...and getting away with it.
Also, do not forget that there are more than a few "Prima -Donnas" that discriminate on a different level, where "Race" is irrelevant, but "Bank" is King. I could name 5 TS Porn stars I know of that would never deal with Backpage level Black Guys, indeed will talk smack about Black guys in general, legitimate or not, but when the right Hollywood moneybag Black guy shows up, (Marl-*cough-cough*) they "suddenly" have a change of attitude and get the proverbial "peanut butter legs", as we used to call them back in the day, and they will never admit it to our public, for fear of alienating clients (There is only one stone hardhearted racist TG I know of in that category who will never change her tune, Louisiana born and she is a HUGE hypocrite, claiming to be all "New Age" and such claptrap. Bitch, Please - I know, some selected people on this board know, and you (her) know who you are, [i]you phony alabaster whited seplecure, hiding behind your "girlfriend of color" that had a bit part in a Hollywood movie, as a diversionary tactic[/i]. Yes, Some of us know the truth, but the rules [u]here[/u] will not let me name you or her. But we know you will be getting face time at the upcoming “Tranny Awards” on the red carpet, as you did last year. Bchez...)...
The last thing it has to do is with having a "big cock". There are plenty of non-Black guys who are well-hung, and many Black guys that are normal to less hung. If you want to talk "racism", you can hang a hat there, because it is BS myths that goes farther back than the origination of the USA. Just look at a few Porn studs for proof, never forget these guys are chosen for the films due to size (visual interest) and ability (get it up in a room full of people with cameras, hot lights, and get the job done - Has little to nothing to do with one-on-one reality). I submit classic studs such as Peter North, Thomas Byron, and Ron Jeremey as a few examples...
Historically speaking, this is nothing new. Do a search on "Octoroon Balls" and learn a few things...
As to your comment: "Please explain the logic of excluding a good portion of the your loyal clientele. Aren't tgirls discriminated against enough themselves?" - You are missing the point and assuming the girl/s have such a clientele, and that they are dealing with "logic" to begin with...
[u]Brutality[/u]: I have personally overheard a pack of "Latina" TG's in a club talking smack about Black guys, and some of their "Asian" (Asian my a$$, they are all Filipinos!) counterparts. Many of these are ruthless dealing with ALL their "clients", but have special grist with the "white" guys, especially "subs", who they have a low opinion of, judging from what I overheard . [i]They seemed [u]proud[/u] of the fact they excluded Black guys from their roster[/i]. I surmised, in this specific case, that the sub-culture of Los Angeles Black guys/"Thugs"/ Punks, from their comments, possibly deserved such disdain. [i]I did not agree with it, but understood it[/i]. Of course, these same TG women did not apply the same criteria to me as an individual when they saw how I carried myself, but of course, they were seeking a payday, and knew (see how that works?) I was not the usual Black guys they have encountered. I did not bite, BTW, I am old enough to not go where I am not really wanted, I am rarely fooled on that level, "drop dead legs-pretty smile" nonetheless...
So, let me summarize:
Girls on BP are shady at best, ROB at worst, they are seeking the safest and highest paying encounters, do not assume it is as much racial as it is financial, many are not making their own cash to begin with ("hint”!!!)...
As Sserviceman alluded to, they are advertising open to so-called "white boys" for the aforementioned reasons...Again, be-where, the ROB, the risk is higher...
What is behind this phenomena?: Dumbass, low class, uneducated fools with nonexistent social skills that think such an encounter is "normal", whipping out a cock and thinking this is acceptable. It is not and ruins it for the "decent" guys. Keep that shyt in the ghetto, and best get a "real" GF rather than experiment with Jerry Springer/Maury incorrect images of what TG girls are all about (and cut back on the Grooby porn, it is not a realistic image of what TG girls are all about)...
If you are a “sub”, expect to be looked down upon by most TG's for having those urges. They want a “Man”, not a Macho boy who is a booty sissy at heart. Not judging, just observing the phenomena realistically.
As for you Hood rats: Get over yourselves about having a big one changes all the rules.
The last thing a TG has is a shortage of willing sex partners. You are nothing special. If she is working, it is NOT because she is having a shortage of sex. She is trying to survive. Respect it!
Finally. You need to accept the fact that you WILL be discriminated against. Get over it!. You are going to be discriminated against in every and all aspects of your life as a Blackman, why should you suddenly think this venue would be a level playing field?. It is not and never will be. Straighten up and fly right. Deal with it and move forward, because you are not going to get any breaks. Sux, but that's the reality...
Regards: BWulf
I am not dogging you as an individual, merely comenting...
Blackwulf that was very well said! As a Blakkman who has seen TS and GG providers for the better part of the last 25 years I will say that just about everything you said was spot on correct! There was a certain TS that used to work in LA a few years ago who I thought was absolutely stunning, a tall latin girl who claimed to be from Argentina, called her a few times and never got a response, saw another TS who knew her and found out she screens all her calls and if she's certain your white/hispanic/asian she will return your call but if she assumes your black NO CALL BACK! But don't fool yourself there are a lot of stone cold RACIST out here, and the part that I real find amazing is you will see an ad where a provider is willing to meet a person for $100 or less and have the nerve to say No Black Men? So does that mean she would do a dirt/smelly white guy for $80 rather than a clean well mannered black guy for $250? Now don't get me wrong you say a few young punks who mess it up for the rest of us, well its more than a few I would say its close to half, they are arrogant, have this sense of entitlement, and heres the main thing: CHEAP! They are looking for something for nothing, or expect a 2 hour session with all the extras and expect the provider to accept $100 or less? But you are absolutely correct on its how you handle yourself I have at least 10 TS providers who when they coming to my area will give me a call to try to hook up because I never argue or try to negotiate their fee, tip generously, and many have told me that was the easiest $ they ever made because I'm very easy to please. And hey Dog don't be too hard on our favorite scammer AM who travels most of the big west coast cities back in 2007 she was almost killed by a young black guy in Phoenix, but the gun jammed and she escaped with her life and in talking to her she was really traumatized by this experience. Had a relative who was a provider in NY back in the 80's and 90's and she told me that her no no was black men under the age of 35, and she was latin/black. Finally all I have to say is If they say No Black Men, just move on to the next one she's not the only provider out there, ever notice that generally those are the ones that have very short careers in the game!
More and more GG's are posting the same thing. Not sure of the reason, but doubt it has to do with racism. Pretty much everyone has the freedom to see who they want, and have some type of business model that agrees with them.
st off, it is has EVERYTHING to do with race,..they are excluding a particular race-group because of how they perceive people of skin color. there's no skip & dance around this. it's just how those certain girls will view it. it's just their perception of how they see blacks, based on either gossip-fear or personal experience unfortunately because of those few group of "morons." as a poster described. the bad thing is the decent ones get phased out and stereotyped because of the actions of a few.
and it's not "all of a sudden"- it' been discriminatory-exclusive ads like this for some time. One very famous tgirl porn star who frequents the Texas cities on a regular basis, that clearly states in her BP ad that she will not see black men. and it's not just non-black escorts.. even black TGs/GGs will place such ads as well ...ironically i notice that i don't see "no black men" ads on eros, as you will on BP or craiglist. i assume eros prefers not to allow blatant,offensive statements. As a result, you may see a different type of statement, i.e. "i'm not for everyone'"... and leave it to the girls to personally deal with incoming clients, without involving eros.
some girls claim that they have a screening process,in that they can tell if a client's voice sounds black,and then some will flat ask/tell them 'no i don't black men', some may decide to accept if they have a sense of their phone demeanor, along with a text-sent photo,..... the worst of it is these girls will hide behind the it's their "preference" claim instead of just announcing that they have a fear/hate towards black men (or even hispanic in some sense)
they have the right to accept or decline a client for whatever reason just as clients have a right to decide not to even engage the thought of seeing a provider
tell her I am a 40's something skinny Asian man named Tyrone Jackson. I will let ya know how it goes.
After reviewing NYC Craigslist ads for quite awhile there is also a disinclination on the part of some providers not to service white and Latino men (Black men only). Not too many but a few. So it can work both ways. Also those over 40 y.o and whose cock size is less than 9 inches: forget it! They don't want you! Sigh!
To recap, the preferred client seems to be": cute, light skinned Latino, under 40, have a cock size of at least 9 inches and be a top NOT bottom or versatile.
I have not read such ads on Eros.
there are reasons people don't see black guys:
1. Black guys are prompt to fight back if the girl is not really what she advertises.
2. Black guys are more "athletic and more demanding" in bed. I personally like it, but some girls might be "worn out" because of that lol
3. personal reasons (you name it)
I love dark skinned ethnic guys..chocolate athletic men are yummy, so that's not my case at al
really disliked black guys. I've also heard stories of brothers trying to assume the role of temp pimps when ladies visit a new city and she finds out these guys are outside her hotel shaking down likely looking clients as they go in the front door.
No "Brothers" over here but I gotta aksk if u know of any tran-sex-ual sista's who want to wrap on my mike? We won't be wrappin presents and mike ain't no friend of mine either.