Ok, so I've been looking at trannies for a long time.  almost 2-3 years now, but have never gotten one.  I really want to exp one, but just feel weird about it.

I only want to get head and feel weird and don't know how to bring it up... I don't want the TS to get upset or anything.  Am I just wasting my time?  Anyone else know what I'm feeling?  and will I have to give the full donation for only that?

Also, where is the beginner's guide so I can make sure I dont look or act like a fool...

Dude,

Sorry to say you'll just have to take the plundge! I would not ask for a "discount" as rates are typically based on compensation for time... not for services. Therefore would not be subject to change.

If you are curious?? As EVERY guy is (regardless if they admit it or not)then just search the reviews of the ladies in your area and pick one you feel comfortable with. Generaly speaking, most TS are bottoms so you are likely ahead of the game there. It is harder to find tops than bottoms and it really depends on what you are looking for in the session. Even those who top are usually vers... so go through the reviews and make a choice from there.

If you need a recomendation then narrow it down to a precious few and post a link here (in a new thread) and ask your brethren for advise. Blanket requests for "who to see" will often be ignored or met with ridicule so do your home work and ask reasonable questions.

Hope that helps?

Fog

I don't think you have anything to worry about. I can't imagine any well reviewed TS provider is going to be offended. Just be sure she's not a top only. There are some top only providers that do not suck cock, but that's pretty rare. To be safe you should probably pick a bottom.

Don't be surprised if you decide to do more than get your cock sucked once your involved in the session; it can get pretty hot!

Good luck and write a review!

you really shouldn't have a problem with most.  i've been trollin g for about 2 years now and i've never done top or bottom. it's just never been my thing.   just a lot of BJ on both sides and i've never had any problems or complaints.

as for being a newbie.  you'll be fine.  just keep living the fantasy and remember she's a girl and it will all come naturally.  you'll know what to do when it happens.

As a Ts provider I feel you should hear from my point of view. I can tell by the previous responses in this thread, that majority of the response have being 1-sided. I encounter 1st timers all the time & I also deal a lot with with guys who are top only or desire just a BJ. I let people know up front that i have a flat rate for all services. It's important to remember to respect a provider's time & quality of service she provides by not trying to short change her by asking for a discount if she has already stated what her rates are. As a provider & I'm sure other providers will agree that it is insulting & rude to shortchange a provider. Especially if she has reputation for providing great service with reviews to back it up. However,  I'm 100% sure you will find a provider that may compromise to a discount but at what cost? To be rushed? To feel you are restricted on what you can't do like touching her or her not fully particpating in the session because she is having  to be put in a uncomfortable situation by compromising her rates which in return may make her bitter & rude? Keep in mind there are street walkers that will be glad to take anything from a $20 rock or $20 for a discount quickie but the risk of stds & other uncomfortable situations are not worth the "discount".Obviously you want your 1st time to be comfortable & rewarding.That is why you came to TER looking for support I'm assuming? Make no mistake, as nice as a provider may appear over the phone,in person,ect..... she still deserves to fairly be compensated for the time that she is investing in your TS experience. You get what you pay for so don't settle for a lemon when you can pay a little extra & have a peach.

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And oh yeah it will help to check out her reviews.

Very good point and informative.  I did not consider the provider side of the equation and have no problem with the full donation.  

this is all new to me so i just thought i'd ask.

and yes i checked out a lot of reviews when i had the extended membership... but i didnt put it to use cause i was so damn confused about this scene.  guess i shoulda checked here first - is there a beginner's guide or thread as to what to expect?