This post is half information seeking, half rant.  Apologies in advance lol.  

Have any of you noticed the meaning of VIP changing over the past few years when it comes to providers?  My understanding has always meant it to be an up-charge for GFE and/or PSE, kissing (DFK), BBBJ both ways, CIM (mileage may vary), and a very relaxing and intimate session.  I've had two recent VIP experiences that were anything but this, and definitely left me feeling cheated.  

Earlier in the year I met with Rafaella from Miami.  Perhaps the most perfect TS girl I've ever seen in person.  Body in absolute amazing physical condition, skin soft and smooth, totally manicured and as close to perfect in every way, a real model type.  My review is on TER, but needless to say the session was far from VIP.  

Last week I took the VIP plunge again and met with Stefanny from Atlanta.  I will post a review soon, but once again a far cry from VIP.  She is very beautiful and definitely the girl in her photos, but the session was the most rushed I have ever been in, she immediately tried to make me cum (to the point where I actually pushed her off of me at one point), and she was on her phone half the time checking messages.  Not even close to a 500 experience.  

So have I just been unlucky lately, or are the girls' definition of VIP not lining up with mine?  Or is age/looks playing a factor?  I'm early 50's, definitely could lose a few pounds, but I always show up well dressed, freshly showered, groomed, and breath smelling good.  I know inflation has everyone's balls in a bunch, but I would expect a bit more for a 500 session.  

Looking forward to some feedback/comments.  

I agree alvintostig, personally I don't do VIP for this reason, there is no guarantee of what you get and some of the younger girls are clueless about the basics of good service, never mind great. If I feel VIP is being pushed, I move on to another girl. Try to check reviews to see what girls are genuinely into sessions, maybe share a fetish with you,  and seem somewhat lower volume.  

one weird related thing is the recent surge in offers of bareback. WTF, do any of these idiots care about their lives anymore? Last 3 girls offered it to me. Close to quitting this game except for 1-2 girls I know from years back.

I've never tried any woman that advertises VIP in fear of this very reason. I'm okay with upcharges when the initial advertised cost of a massage is low - it's basically a given that there will be upcharges.  

However, when someone is advertising 3 for an hour but 5 for VIP, I won't even consider seeing that person that rate of 3. In my mind, I imagine that when I step in there for 3, I will get shit service and they'd say "Upgrade to VIP next time and I'll treat you better." Or the reverse happens - you initially set up for the VIP price and you still get shit service. Both situations are a gamble.  

I only visit women who advertise one price for amount of time, and the reviews match up to cost/service. Anybody else advertising VIP is essentially selling snake oil in my eyes (no pun intended?).

ANY provider advertising VIP service with less than 6-8 consistent reviews on a credible site like this one, by reviewers with a more than 1 or 2 reviews, I take a hard pass unless they're less than a year into the business. Without reviews my list of red flags are an immediate PASS.  

Red Flags:  
VIP service is an up-charge (without reviews) PASS,  $400 base service over $500 VIP service PASS, travelers advertising VIP but only on 1 site which is a questionable site already PASS, google the number without any trace of anything, no former name or any info PASS, Google their photos without any connections or it's someone else's' photo PASS, check social media for consistency/confirmation but they have none or it seems questionable or low class PASS, if it looks too good to be true PASS.  

Girls with Only Fans pages are screened more critically. They post 3-4 travel dates but they're not even in the city before your city, you can check their current location on TS4Rent PASS, check their social media if they have it, not where they say they will be PASS, you send an email, call or text them to set an appointment, they direct you to their OF page PASS, the content on their OF page is lame PASS.  

Qualifying them - get in contact with them with what ever form of communication they say is best; email, text or a call, you should be able to ask 3-4 general questions then you need to be careful. Ask them the difference with the VIP service, if the answer is a bit of a hassle their service probably is, if it's a smoother response keep going.

Be careful and have fun out there!!!

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VIP used to mean one thing and 1 thing only, she would cum. Some providers would go so far as to fake an orgasm while topping. But most lived up to expectations.  

Then VIP morphed to be cum, and once Prep became mainstream, BBFS/PSE.  

Today, VIP is code for GFE. Some will still deliver partial GFE on non-VIP dates, but it's rare. Although I did hook up with a smoke show provider last week. For 300 (no advertised VIP rate) I got the VIP treatment. Only complain was the size of her D but she didn't overstate and she has no control of how well endowed she is.  

I'm planning to do a session next week and then retire from the hobby because the donations are totally out of fucking control. Travel expenses are up, but NOT THAT MUCH!!!!!

If you're in the Hartford area TS Nicki on ts 4 rent is way affordable and one of the best providers ever!!!!