I have a "friend" who saw a TS provider intentionally.  He denies being gay, but I think he is.  Why else see a TS provider if you are not gay?

It is a stupid question, and why bother with it.  If your friend likes cock (depends on what he did) why worry about it.  Maybe your friend likes even more, like to be pentetrated.   Don't post here, just ask him, if in fact you are really friends.

is that "FRIEND" you!!!! by any chance?  it sounds like it... anyway Y get into Psicology?

then why do i still love real pussy as well??

Your inquiry is an absolute "no brainer". The greater majority of us who enjoy Trans are bisexual and we get the best of both worlds. Your real motivation behind your post is the only thing in question here.

My take:

If he's only attracted to people who look like men, then he's gay.
If he's attracted to both men and women, then he's bi.
If he's only attracted to people who look like women, then he's not gay.  Still holds true if they're a TS: it's the femininity that's attractive.
If this "friend" saw a GG provider, and she used a strap-on on him, would that make him gay?

it is the desire to get it from behind and the pleasure of sucking cock that makes a man gay , even if you ask a "real woman" to do it with a strap on dildo, we can talk about sexual relationships with our male friends with a woman but well never talk about our secret desires of getting fucked sucking dick and playing with dildos!  let's face it thats a gay thing ! no str8 man would want to try something like that. i think im bisexual even though im always a top and had bever suck a dick, i have fun with transsexuals because of the fact that they look like women but behind that beauty(in some) i know they are also men with tits and not women with dicks as many gay men (in denial)wish it was, but then again is just a fantasy, i love feminine men with tits and that makes me bisexual, i have seen young pretty gay men on the street who are even more pretty than many ts's who advertise, they might not live their lives as women but i never had the guts to aproch them, i think these are the ones who in the future would become the beautiful transsexuals that we admire!

It seems to me it doesn't really matter, unless the person has a lot of hangups about what they should classify themselves as.  Just so you understand -- most men have sexual desires they wouldn't want to talk to their buddies about.  Also, many many men (including very respected, powerful businessmen and celebrities) have deep desires which include taking it up the ass, being dominated, etc.  So which is healthier --- repressing all that desire and living a life feeling shame, or living a life that you accept that you have desires which may or may not be classified a certain way?  Is a man who desires a woman to dominate him and force him to service her gay because he is expressing a desire traditionally considered feminine (i.e. geisha girls, traditional family values, subordinate woman, etc).  Is a man who likes a woman to put her finger, or a dildo, up his ass considered gay, if he only wants a feminine woman to do it?  I personally like TS as an interesting diversion -- the more feminine the better, though.  I just like a little extra equipment, as a lark, to enjoy.

Well i believe everybody in this forum is a little weird (including me!) we enjoy weird staff, taboo staff so dark and unmentionable that if they were to be exposed our lifes would be practicaly destroyed!  so we come here and talk about it., i bet for you Totallizard writing reviews is as  exciting as having a dick in your mouth, any ways what's the big deal of being gay ? i'v notice always a fear of self acceptance of these guys asking in the ts forums "am i gay?????" it seems to me like they were asking for permission to be gay,they got the answer to themselves but are hoping for someone to tell them"NO you are not gay,as long as the guy you are blowing looks like a girl you are "NORMAL" and most of the time that's the answer they get, from Who?? from another guy who is trying to convince him self that he is "NORMAL" as long as the  dick he is sucking belongs to a transsexual.,the thing is who cares with all the freedom we have in this country,if you are in the closet stay in the closet, enjoy your sexuality and suck as many dicks as you wish...life is too short to ask for others peoples opinions.