I'm very well aware that one could get herpes from performing oral sex on an uncovered TS provider.   However, the first and only TS provider that I was with claimed that it's safe.  Should I have run right then and there?  This TS had a very clean looking cock, but does that matter?  Can you still get herpes if there are no obvious lesions, etc, on the skin?  Foolishly, I gave an unprocted bj to this TS, which was reciprocated.  So far - 3 weeks later - no sores thank God.  Any advice re: TS providers that give and receive unprotected oral?

Another thing that had me laughing was the fact that this TS provider told me she occaisonally services a female hobbyist, who always asks the TS to eat her pussy.  The TS told me that she always refuses because its not safe.  The irony is that the TS rimmed me as if it were the most normal and safe thing in the world.  

I'm deathly afraid of getting HIV, and every provider of course swears that they're clean - but the fact is that you never know.  They could be lying for whatever selfish/warped reason.