Can anyone tell me why most TS escorts in North American seem to be the dominant type and they seem to prefer to top.  Many only top?  This seem ironic to me.  Does anyone have an opinion why this is so?

I disagree that most TS escorts are tops. In fact, I would say that most prefer to bottom or switch. Are you actually visiting girls or just looking at ads. I think a lot of girls (and ALL scammers) will put top in their ad to appeal to more customers. When you get behind closed doors, many of them are actually bottoms or verse. In my experience, 95% of girls will bottom but only about 50% will (or can) top. At least that's how it's been with me...

Most is from looking at gurls.  I usually do Girls/Girls.  I see a TS once or twice a year.  I asked for some role play where the TS dressed in a business suit and play my sex therapist or psychologist and seduced me.  a great fantasy but the two time I did this the girl wanted to dominate me and top me.  So I will do a different scenario.  I am interviewing a gurl for a secretary job and she is desperate to get the job or something like this.  Anyway, I seem to bring out the dominant side in some of the girls.  With girl girls I am very dominant.  I will try this with TS gurls and see where it goes.

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I agree with Tim. Ive gotten responses where during sessions with verse ladies they get a high volume of bottom guys and are glad when i come to top them. To your point of " I seem to bring out the dominant side in some of the girls" this to can be a true statement as i have also seen some verse girls who only want to fuck me. But a higher percent of the ladies that ive seen personally have wanted to bottom. I really think especially with a vers ts its all about how they perceive the client which determines how they will act during session (more top, more bottom).

You might also just tell them what you want out of the session. I know that may be oversimplifying, but it usually works! Does sound like a fun fantasy, although I admit the secretary trying to get a job lends itself more to the girl being the sub...

I check out ts ads all the time and based on looking at ads I've gotten the same idea that a lot of the providers seem to want to top. A lot of the ads never mention anything about being versatile. Over the years I've called a few and inquired. There was one former ts pornstar who typically was a bottom in vids (don't remember who it was even though I remember this incident trying to catch her when she was in town), but when I called her she told me she strongly preferred topping which was a shock to me. Given I'm a top I told her I'd just call another provider as I generally find those who are more inclined to be tops aren't always good bottoms and rush you to finish. I can see though that a lot of providers are appealing to guys who want to bottom though.

or are not sticking to what you really want.  plenty of sexy bottom only or preferred gals out there

I prefer my girls to be girls, to me an extra plaything is a bonus no different from performing cunnilingus. This "topping" issue is a deal breaker IMVVHO, not my cup of tea at all. I reason that if a guy wants to be "topped", why not just go to a "Bear" site and link up with a hairy big man who will happily ram it to you. It is insensible to burden feminine TS with the task of topping you, I have to legitimately question why one would have such a desire.

To each his own...

I think u just have to communicate what you want.  Somehow my fav TS and I have morphed into me being the bottom.  I need to let her know my desires....

wgy are gg's "girls" and ts' "gurls"?  just curious

Bro:
I don't associate personally,  just making an observation from a non-sub position (so to speak). I simply prefer to treat my TS as the women they are in the Hermaphrodite mode. This makes me happy and I hope makes them happy also...

Interesting observations, Sir...