Transsexual
No, we live in San Diego, at least for another couple of years till Jessica finishes college. But - we left our hearts in SF, along with a pair of sunglasses at the hotel... 
Luv,
TS Jamie
"Dog" is right, most "passable" t-girls don't hang out at T-bars unless it's for business reasons.
For that matter most of us don't hang out at ANY bar unless we are looking to hook up.
It's kind of sad to say, but studies have shown that between 30 and 70% of TS's are sex workers. What's left are generally older t's who transitioned late in life or girls who were able to save their jobs during transition. And most of those girls are already in relationships of various sorts.
My personal guess is 90% of t-girls under 30 are in the business at some level. There is no choice - virtually nobody will hire a TS, especially a young uneducated one. Hell, nobody will hire my partner and she has a degree in Science.
So remember guys - you get what you pay for...
Luv,
TS Jamie