Guys,

I've ventured into this territory on-line, through videos and have shopped on the various boards, but how do you know if you are really ready to try a TS experience?  So many questions come to mind; will she look like her pictures, how do you handle what you'd like to try and know what is allowed, do you need to develop safe words, if you have a good experience and feel inclined to post a positive review, with other ladies you look to schedule time with look at you negatively and potentially bypass you, what about the whole questions of if this is related to homosexual tendencies?  Maybe I'm reading too much into this, but I could use some advice.

For timid old me, this would be a big jump.  Into the hobby fairly frequently a few years back, I took some time off and jumped backed in about a year ago.  For me it is a great way to add some spice to my travels, meet some interesting folks and enjoy myself.  I typically do a fair amount of on-line research through the various provider boards, read through reviews and then make a decision.  I guess it would be a similar scenario in the TS world as well.  Additionally, many of the girls "welcome newbies", so that would help as well.

I'd appreciate any insights, advice or opinions.  Much thanks in advance.

Sheesh! Just do what you think you want! We can't tell you if Your ready! Have fun enjoy! If you don't like it after you try it, go back to "non-homo" relationships.

but once i decided to venture forth 6 or so years ago, I became less so in all aspects of my life. Personally, I do not like looking at men in a sexual way, even the cross dressers do nothing for me. Heck even if I did enjoy that, so what, that would be who I am and so be it.

Go check out forum.transladyboy.com. There are many posts discussing the gay v. straight debate.

Be well and be safe.

-b

You ARE reading too much into this. If you were attracted to "men", you would not be looking at ts with interest, you clearly are NOT attracted to masculinity. There is already a current thread on this subject, go read it.  
I say watch this video, it may help you codify your issues. Although I do not agree 100%, it is close enough for most to get something positive out of it and is why I recommend it...