Just thought I'd ask.  Really wouldn't mind finding a like-minded TS lady for fun w/o the cash.

Good luck w/that. Unless you're in SF or NYC and look like George Clooney

you may find one. i did in denver  a couple months ago. she was great looking but unfortunitly due to friends i didn't get to take her out. but good luck though

Like anyone if you build trust and friendship you can have a TS lady as a friend. I have known a few in the past. But you know, when you go out with a GG your paying for the dinner, the move, the flowers or candy, the V - Day and B-Day gifts. In the end I guess you end up paying something.

while playing around with a dude that doesn't want to invest in her transition but wants to suck her cock dry of the only financial resources she has....you boys are just too much

There aren't girls that are out there, but its interesting that you are having this conversation on this site instead of many other sites that are devoted to dating/relationships...

So ts girls have no other life than escorting?  I've dated several and had semi ltr's and they never asked me to fund anything.  Like any normal relationship or date, I paid for dinner, bought them nice things for their bday  or whatever.  Seems like even if a lady were escorting, she might want to have a life outside that sometimes.

I don't know if I'm reading this correctly, so if I'm wrong let me know.

"While playing around with a dude that doesn't want to invest in her transition".  

I think that this is a horrible way of thinking. No disrespect jazzy, I respect your opinion and applaud you, and can't wait to meet you, but I hope you don't think that way.

Without giving too much away, I have dated 2 ts women in my life, one ts was a few years ago, that I will share about.  One experience was good and one was bad(horrible actually). I won't say her name because most of you have seen her movies. Anyway, this conversation came up quite a bit  ("Investing" in her transformation).  I dated this specific ts woman for about 2 months. she would say things like, "I know you have money, why don't you pay for this, or this, or this?(in regards to plastic surgeries, etc)" I remember one day, after knowing her for a couple of weeks, she asked if she could move into my vacation home in LA.

When I refused her, she would go totally psycho. I broke that off real quick. I'm not saying that I wouldn't pay for it, but after 2 months??? Of course I won't! If there was a genuine relationship there, and we wanted to be together, I would assist anyway I could have, but I wasn't at that point.

Now, my point is, can a man have a genuine interest in a ts woman, absolutely! Being a man confident in himself, I have no doubt that I can hold a relationship with a ts woman, but can a TS woman have a genuine interest in a man, without looking for a sponsor?

That is a better question.

After my last attempt at a relationship with a ts, I probably won't attempt to date one anymore, unless one really can differentiate from work and personal affairs. And ISN'T crazy!

So jazzy, I hope you don't think that every guys is out to suck the financial cock.

But, we met on a professional basis initially and the friendship developed organically. They invested into getting to know me and our chemistry dictated more from there. to be on an escort discussion board looking for a girlfriend is a bit of a disrespectful approach.

Google ts dating sites or go to the one I built. It is designed for interaction on a more personal level between transsexuals and people who want to get to know them

http://www.transsexualswingersclub.com

Doesn't sound disrespectful...just naive.

If your in a major city try finding a club or bar where the gurls hang.
See if you click with someone and take it from there.

...but don't be shocked when you're asked to
"invest".

Try Squirt.org, lots of tg's looking for fun not money have met quite a few