First let me say I am a fanatic when it comes to cleanliness, so much so that I will use an enema 2-3 times, though that isn't advised. I floss and brush my teeth twice, shower, shave, dry off thoroughly (advised by a girl I was with), and a light mist of cologne. I am always respectful on the phone, friendly upon meeting, subtle with the donation, never ask any weird or incriminating questions, never try to downsell, never expect more that what we agree on, complimentary throughout session(only if I mean it), and I always try to build rapport with the girl I am with so future visits will be better. I am always nervous when I meet someone, new or otherwise. I never top, mainly because I am not well-endowed and I am self-consious about it. If the session was exactly what we discussed I always give a nice tip and thank them, that has happen only twice.
A couple of months ago I was with a Dallas girl. I had gone through my routine as stated above. I called a girl that didn't get too good of reviews but was hung and that's what I really like. I called her up, went over, and she looked just as good as her pics. After all the formalities we started kissing and she was ready in about 5 minutes. She didn't talk much. We agreed on her topping me when I came in her apartment. When I positioned myself on the bed, she said that was extra. I told her I didn't bring any more money and that she agreed when I first walked in. She rolled her eyes and said she had only one condom. I was like, well you only need one. Needless to say she started to top me and without any spirit I might add. After a few minutes of lackluster pumping she pulled out.
I asked if she came she said no, but I need to clean up and leave. I asked why and she said because I didn't prepare rectally for this. I told her I did. She said that she could smell it and that means I wasn't clean. Embarrassed I went to the bathroom and wiped off the lube and I honestly never smelled anything. Well I didn't know what to say but apoligize. She rudely said, "whatever, just go." Since that happened I stayed away from the hobby for a while since I felt EVERYONE knew, though I not that isn't true. Either way it bothered me enough to research this. I usually try to watch what I eat a day or two prior to seeing someone so even if there is anything left after an enema it won't so disgusting. The more I thought about this, the more I thought she was just mad that I had her top me and made an excuse to get me out of there. If the girls only knew how monetarily genereous I can be, they would at least try a little harder.
Has anyone else had an experience like this? Thoughts? Comments? I recently got back in the saddle and it was great, but I still can't stop worring about this.
