So is it the allure of exploring your bisexual side with someone who feels safely feminine?

Ever have the experience of being hot about the idea of it, but being repulsed when you actually tried it?

Has enjoying male hardware with a T-girl opened you up to wanting to have sex with men?

On my way over to her incall location. Once I get there I call to let her know, and then I usually have to wait a bit, (wonder what's going on up there?). Once I get to her room, it's usually pretty straight forward, I tell her what I am into, and she either agrees, or doesn't. Afterwards, depending on how we have hit it off, may chat for a bit, not always, but mostly though. Do your research, visit a lady with a good reputation, and it's usually a lot of fun.

Personally, as great as some TS ladies are, it is because they are so feminine that I like them, so I've never considered seeing men just because I like to date TS.

I tended bar @ small gay bar in orange cty, CA....I met a few TS & CD that I learned were providers & that's how I found this website.  The TS said most clients were so worked up by the time they got to the appt that they didn't really know if it mattered to the client if they were attracted to them personally or if they were just caught up in the fantasy of it all.....I think you have to pick some one attractive to you & play safe & go for it.  I have been w/ a few TS...some not on this website....it always helps me to have chemistry...otherwise...waste of time & money.  Just my viewpoint, but I think some of the reviews on here are coming from clients that may have turned the providers off....

Newly divorced after a very conventional 25 years of dating and married sex, I had my 1st TS encounter really just to dare myself to do something unthinkable.

Come for the challenge; stay for the fun:

 -- Transexuals are often more beautiful and sexy AS WOMEN than GGs are.
 -- Unless you get jaded, TSs have an exciting "forbidden fruit" aspect that GGs lack.
 -- The extra equipment lets you do more things that feel really good.  Your ass is an erogenous zone, especially with a living person inside it.

And no, in my case at least, there's no drift toward guys.

Hmm, thanks for that reply.  Not that I doubt you, but what you indicate about being a bottom in a visit to a TS runs counter to what I read elsewhere.  Some T-girl who has a blog said it is very rare that a T-girl wants to play top, since its the desire to be very feminine that led them to being a T-girl in the first place.  She said that if you want to see a T-girl who is a top, be prepared to pay very big $$ for a real professional.

thankx for sharing, wondering what bar do you tended at? i live in oc and looking for new places to check out

Tin Lizzie in Costa Mesa...Gay bar..not many T-girls