im new to this and i want to meet a bottom "girl" who is really laid back and works well with first-timers in the OC area. could you point me in the right direction? thanks very much for all your help.

i'm new to ts's too and i'm wondering if you can explain which is top and which is bottom?

top = on top, giving anal, doesn't recieve anal

bottom= on the bottom, reciveing anal

basically the differance between the pitcher and the catcher

btw are you still considered a top if you like to give bj's?

Seems like you would be.  The terms would seem to only apply to the act of intercourse.

I never "got" all this "I'm a top" or "I'm a bottom" stuff.  Seems like all the girls at least should be versatile.  I think that's their job.  But that sure ain't the case!