Question for experts from fairly new one. I have a sad face because it is 3:15 AM Sunday morning and I was too lazy to go out Saturday night and earlier too tired. Now for the question from me. Is it possible to search for TS in Chicago on the reviews? What do I do? Just go to advanced and put in location and TS and nothing else?  Obviously I am going to Chicago (June 24-27 only). Also, I have had plenty of contacts from amateur who do it for fun, so is it really worthwhile paying?

On what you value your time to be. For me there is no question, it's worth it. My time is way too valuable. I hate bars, so meeting there is not an option for me. This website and the Eros and Cityguide websites also let you know what your going to get for your money.

As far as searching goes. My tip would be to do a search three ways. First, by city, second, by area code. Last, use the erostransexual.com website and backtrack the lady's reviews to TER. Some ladies have screwy area codes. Such as a Dallas area code but they work in Boston etc. So those ladies are under the radar if you simply do an area code search.

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Dick is not worth paying for if you have a wife,gf, or female lover. If she finds out that you not only like dick but you have to pay for dick she will lose any respect for you. Secondly, dick is not worth paying for as it may lead to an addiction. My former roomate filed for bankruptcy as he frequented every  TS/TG/CD/TV escort, circus freak, trapeze artist,etc., in the Boston area.



Dick is worth paying for if you'd like to try it, if you're single, and/or if you do not have time to meet anyone.

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If you had plenty of contacts from amateur who do it for fun ....
You wouln`t be asking this question in the first place!!!!!

I agree w/ you. Whatever the case a guy should definitely be discreet if he's got a fem lover. Maybe paying is best route. The only thing worse than finding out that a guy you slept w/ pays for dick is that he also has to pay for 300lb pussy too. YUCK..NASTYYYY//LOSERRRRR At least I don't have to pay $200-$300 to suck a guy's dick and have him fuck me in ass. I'm so glad good-looking normal heterosexual men exist. Sex with straight guys is better than sex w/ gay guys who pay cross dressing escorts $300 to suck dick.I'm so luckyYYYY. Tootles.

When he got caught using a prostitue, Clark Gable was asked why he needed to pay for sex, he said, and I paraphrase, "I don't pay for sex, I pay them to go home."  Now, not meaning to be ill mannered, or suggests the gals we see are not wonderful, but I suspect most hobbyists pay for the anonymity and the lack of entanglement, and not the "dick" as was suggested.  Perhaps a premium is put on the hottest gals, but ultimately it's about discretion.

Thanks for the response on this. I only got it now because being new I didn't know how to find the entire thread and was confused about why I received a notification of mail being available.

As it turned out the weather was about as hot as it gets in Chicago, the convention I went to kept me busy and, therefore, I never went looking although I did check out the computer and put an ad in Craigs List.  One lady (not a TG) was coming to Chicago as a visitor and sounded good, but I was leaving before she got there. After that I was in the country where the guys apparently do not have access to all these ladies on TER.  I do have the contacts and as one of the replies said, paying someone can save plenty of time. While free stuff is nice, there is a commitment of time and effort. My normal way is to expend the time.

I did get a surprise in a Baltimore strip club later on when the bar girl entertaining me up and said, "do you want to have sex?"  The last time one said that to me I was so drunk and was outside the USA. I ended up on the bar's floor, which luckily was closing. Eventually I went DATY with 3 or 4 bar girls.  Geeezzzz how drunk, crazy and stupid can one be?  This episode cost me dearly and I no longer drink!