Welcome. Though there are many more experienced than I, perhaps my recent newbie-trials may have given me some insight you would find useful.

1 - Relax! It isn't "performance art", nor are there preset standards to meet. Be sane, and follow your instincts.

2 - Read the reviews and in doing so look for a provider who's personality is akin to your needs. Be upfront about what you want.

3 - Don't try to do everything all at once. Take your time and explore.

4 - Relax! Enjoy.

Read FAQ for newbies. (preparation)

Don't see a girl after waxing or shaving for at least a day or two.  No open wounds!!!  Definitely get an enema.  Warm water is fine.  CVS sells kits.  Really research the girl before.  Don't let your little head doing your thinking for you.  You'll get in trouble if you don't do your research.  PM me if you want suggestions.  I know or have seen most of the girls in Dallas.

Re: Dallas male seeking advice for first time with TS

Since you're in Dallas I recommend you try Cindy (Dallas based, Hispanic, top). She's petite and a nicely hung natural top, seven to eight inches and THICK!

You need to be sure your ass is ready for the experience. I recommend you buy an eight inch Doc Johnson realistic dildo and a butt plug. When you're able to comfortably take the eight inch dildo, you can take Cindy.

Be sure to take an enema before you bottom. Also, be sure you get everything out after the enema, sometimes it can fool you! A good way to check to see if you're really ready to bottom is to use a dildo after the enema to be sure you're clean.

Cindy will make you her bitch!