Hey All,
I am thinking of seeing a provider, but I have never really thought it through completely. If i am not interested in touching the providers snake could that cause a problem? For instance I am really attracted to one ts because of her face. But i have no interest in trying to touch her thing. Will this be unworkable?
One thing you see in ads is that ladies will say don't call me unless you are ready to meet me. The good ones take their profession seriously, and might reasonably think you are pulling their leg when you show up and say, I really like your face? I have not used that particular line, but have been met with some pretty incredulous looks when I said things like, I am in LA just to meet you.
Which has been true, by the way, every trip.
I just wanted to add that I'm a strict bottom provider, which is clearly stated or implied in my ads, and would have no problem with your request. In fact most of my clients are strict tops, and have no interest in that part of my anatomy, so that particular situation works perfectly for me. But I can only speak for myself.
As far as I can tell, most TS providers are versatile and tops, and therefore may take issue for your request. I would suggest that you discreetly and delicately have this discussion with her beforehand, so there's no misunderstanding, and so you're completely satisfied. You're the client, so there should be no reason why you shouldn't be able to call the shots. And no reason why a real quality provider shouldn't be able to meet your needs.
Posted By: jerkmcgerk
Hey All,
I am thinking of seeing a provider, but I have never really thought it through completely. If i am not interested in touching the providers snake could that cause a problem? For instance I am really attracted to one ts because of her face. But i have no interest in trying to touch her thing. Will this be unworkable?
Thanks so much Sir, for that 'free' advice.(wink)
Yes, Snakes and Things are sometimes intimidating, however I find that the desire to see "TS Ladies", somtimes require that a touch, kiss, stroke or even just a "Brush" is part of this lovely pastime, I am sure that being a bottom, or even Versatile, is not a requirement, however you seem intimidated by the thought of touch? I love the touch, taste and pleasure these lovlies provide, so be adventurous, dont be shy enjoy the erotcism these ladies provide, ENJOY!
touching or no touching it's the same to me as long as your happy 
, the provider should be able to make clients feel comfortable in anyway or vice versa.
Posted By: jerkmcgerk
Hey All,
I am thinking of seeing a provider, but I have never really thought it through completely.
The first thing you need to do is think this through completely. So many TS providers have a call me when you are ready to come over policy. It has been my experience that these providers do this in part because so many guys flake out and never show up. As a result, they get burned if they set appointments in advance.
This hobby is a two way street. We want to be treated royally and shown the best possible time for our money and the ladies want to be treated respectfully at all times. Done right, everyone has a good time and both parties walk away with what we wanted from the encounter.
So before you go asking if it is OK to not touching her all over, consider whether or not you will actually go through with it. If the answer is yes, then many providers will be just fine with this being all about you, as long as you are a gentleman in the process.
If and when you correspond with the provider, let her know this is a first time experience for you and you are nervous. Let her know you are not sure exactly how far you want to go, but that you will respect her time, show up clean and pay for her time whether or not you decide to go all the way.
Mr Jerk, and please don't get mad at me for saying thank you in this board, I hope you had fun !
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My first time, I was with a very passable, very pretty provider. Ahead of time I asked her to dress in a bikini. I had her keep her bottoms on and she made me cum orally. It was a great first time.
