As a graphic designer and owner of my own site, flash sites arent always the best to go as far as easy loading. Though most people have dsl, 40percent still dont therefore flash sites take longer to load and graphically are a hassle sometime.

I like my friend Kourtneys site as well as mine of course! Her site is tscenterfold.com I like the graphics on the front and always mine of course.

The more plumbing there is, the easier it is to clog up, has always been my view on things such as this, particularly when it can freeze or deep six someone's system. In other words, the acronym K.I.S.S. immediately comes to mind, i.e., Keep It Simple Stupid (I'm certainly not saying or implying that anyone in here is stupid, mind you).

If some, well, most, girls with "busy" ads and web sites would just apply half the effort into the posing, lighting, clarity, or images -- photography in other words -- of their ads and sites, instead of all the bells and whistles they work to employ in their web sites, their web sites would be much more effective imo. It should be about the woman, not winning website design awards.Sure, be creative, but let's not lose sight of what the priorities should be.

Just my two cents on the matter.