i have never been with a TS, but have fantasized alot, and perhaps, if i can find the right girl, i will take the plunge.

so, it seems to me, that most guys, want oral.....perhaps cuz they do not get it enough from their wives, but when i watch the movies, which i understand is a movie, but it seems like the TS are not happy with recieving oral only, but their creme de la creme is to do anal to the guy.

i know there is a ton of variation , but is that consistant?

one of the reasons i mention this is cuz in my fantasy world, i would like to find a TS that i can give oral to, but i do not want to have them fuck me.

You will need to do your research but there are a lot of girls who are bottoms and like that much more than topping a guy.

You're the client, you call the shots on what you want to do (insofar as it's within her boundaries, of course). If you want to stick to strictly oral, most TS providers wouldn't have a problem with that. Just be up front with what you want when you meet (not over the phone or email; no reputable provider will discuss specifics that way) and you should be fine. You're far from the only guy who doesn't want to be fucked, so I really don't think your request is at all unusual.

hmmm, well . . .

Speaking as a TS provider, for me it's not so much what we do that makes the session good in my eyes. It's the energy, the vibe if you will.I think as long as you're have fun,  ( provided you did manage to find a girl to your liking ) Than the provider you chose will likely also enjoy herself. Being that I've also worked in adult films from time to time also,  I don't feel adult film is the same as a private session so to gauge it by that might not be accurate. One on one is way different than Performing on set or location for a film.

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                                                                                             xxxo Kimberly K

just read the ads and check the reviews. Most girls will say in their ads if they want to Top.

Personally though, I say give it a shot at least once but with a smaller girl who won't be aggressive.

What TS Kimberley says is true. You must first focus on the fun part. Not all TS providers want to top. In my judgment, a TS (provider or not) is more likely to have a preference over who to see male/female/TS rather than the specific acts. If you are a TS please weigh in.