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tsCAT99 908 reads
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My advice to first timers is: always, always, always, always, always go with a well-reviewed provider.  Read reviews and come to this board.  However, many regions don't receive such a visit, so what to do?

A very interesting question was raised below regarding the talking on the phone about "multiple shots/pops" and determining how much for stuff.  It occurred to me to ask:

---In the absence of reviews---, do you think there is a difference in phone behavior depending on the ad?

* Where the ad was placed?
* In what region the ad was placed?
* If the ad has no mention of the roses?
* If the ad has no mention of the kind of services?
* If the ad has no mention of top/bottom?

Personally, I'd rather not TOFTT--I'm a choosy Cat, so I choose Jif every time (but only if it has reviews). :) The reviews are enough for me.

But, first timers are often quite nervous about making calls in the first place, so I think this could be a helpful discussion.

Let the games begin........

TS_Allison1187 reads

...if you should be chastised for it. Also girls that fail to mention roses are just making it difficult.

Personally I advise sending an email if time allows it ( like a day or two before-or even a week if you like to plan ahead) That way you get a sense of the girl's personality from the response.

Personally I don't answer explicit questions directly, but do try and allude to them.

The other thing is that nerves will get the better of us, and roses and asking your exact location are easy "small talk". So I can see that happening the first time. An email might be the way to go for that. I met someone via this board that way a few weeks ago via PM ( and it was Cat who recommended me!)

I want to say 30-50% of my clientèle reads reviews and the discussion boards. And 85% of the men who call my ad are perfect gentlemen ( the other 15% get the "click")

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spendingtime579 reads

a) the provider has/answers email
b) when they answer the email they don't just tell you to call.
c) If you call you can get some basic info
d) they have some vital info in their ad if they don't want to discuss via phone or email.

I'll give an example that's happened a couple of times:

I wanted to see a visiting lady.  No reviews and all her advert said was essentially that she's hot and available.  Searched TER and there was some talk but appropriately, no juicy details.

I emailed asking for some basic info that wasn't in the ad; rate?, GFE?, versatile?, general location (downtown, airport, suburbs) as she wanted callers that were ready within the hour so distance and traffic were definite factors.

What I got back was two words:  "Call me" so I called.  As soon as I asked her rate, she said she doesn't discuss those kinds of things on the phone or by email and hung up!

Ok, so not knowing *anything* about the session I gave up and moved on to another lady and had a great time with minimum hassle.  We didn't talk about anything specific, but there were enough hints that I was comfortable.

If you're a first-timer it's difficult enough to schedule that first session, so my advice is to get what you need to feel comfortable for your first time.  If you don't get at least the basics (cost and general location), walk.  There are plenty of good providers out there willing to work with you.

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TS_Allison833 reads

....I think the major thing for a "first timer" is the comfort level. I'm glad you brought that up.
I try to adjust my "away message" on my email when I travel. You never know about internet access on the road.
But there are plenty of ways to get all the info both sides need by being discreet- wish everyone was like you.

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