Please  excuse the  tone  of this  post, I’m a bit  miffed:

Dear potential clients, when asked if you are member of TER, that question is for screening purposes only. The  fact  that you  don’t  want your  GG provider  to know  that you  are indulging  in “ forbidden fruit” is not only  of  absolutely  no importance to  me, if  anything it’s down right insulting to assume that I or any well reviewed  provider would go out  of their way to contact your GG and let her know what you are  doing( as if  she would  really  care). ….thank you  for  allowing me  this  rant, just  thought I’d  take  the  time  share.
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