tried to call provider with intent of seeing her before 12pm .called her an hour before but was sent to voice mail .so called her again 30 min later,still no answer. so waited till 12pm and called her again but still no answer i was short on time and left a message saying i had another provider.question is is there a kind of script to use when  calling to say i have found someone else,also is calling her back after the first time considered polite or stalking?thanx for any input.