I ran into a girl not too long ago who appeared to possibly be a TS, but I wasn't sure. I was interested in getting to know her either way, but she was not very talkative. Maybe she was simply not interested, but if she was a TS, she may have been afraid to be too friendly thinking I would not be interested in her. I wanted to find out if she was or not, but didn't want to be too direct and offend her if she wasn't. I tried starting a conversation with her and told her she reminded me of a girl I saw at a club called Peanuts in Hollywood. My thinking was that if she were a T-Girl, this might let her know that I was into special girls like her, yet would not offend her or reveal too much if she were a genuine girl because she probably would never have heard of it. She said no, she's never heard of it and had never been to LA. This was not unrealistic since we were a couple hundred miles from LA at the time.

Any other ideas how to let a girl know you are ok either way without spoiling the situation if you are wrong?