Whether the escort is TS or genetic, should she have an attitude that since the John is paying for her time, she should have an attitude of service at his beck and call for what he desires of her within the limits of what she offers?

Would it be "wrong" for a John to show up for a date with the mind set of "I am showered and shaved, all cleaned up.  I am a nice guy and am paying you for your time, now let's see what you can do for your 100, 200 or 300 roses fee"?

I have a friend who specifically does not have sexual intercourse with escorts because he feels that is too much work on his part (unless she BJ's him to get him hard, then gets on top and rides him cow girl).  He specifically seeks gals who offer French lessons, pays for their time and sits back letting the escort do all the work till completion and even waits for her to get a warm wash cloth and wash him up.

Is it unfair to an escort to desire for her to do 100% of the service as the man 100% receives of her work?

Well in the book "Sex Secrets of the Escorts" it tells something about this.. HE, HIM, you guys are not in charge of the session..
WE are..
Given that we the providers should manage the whole session..

I have been known to outright stop when I have a knot on the log who is not returning my favors.. After all if he just wants to 'spend' time that is what he will get and he will certainly not be privileged to a return to my parlor..

I like guys like the Gent I saw today, the one I wrote about earlier were his Girlfriend provided his reference.. Our time together was more than a 'provider - client' thing and went way over any time as I did not want it to end - neither did he..
This type of connection and the extreme fun it brings is why I am in this hobby in the first place..
OH when I started out 'dating' wild and free the guys that offered gifts and gas money I found were the best of the group.. The ones who didn't were shear losers and not even good in the sack, mainly disillusioned with themselves as some kind of "I don't pay studs".. So I followed the most logical path to where I am now and would not do anything else at this point in time..

I cannot see how a guy would visit a provider and not partake in the fun..
Maybe that is what is wrong in his home life to and his wife/girlfriend is out getting her BFE on while the knot sits there on a log and gets his nut..
You want a warm bathcloth?? The bathroom is the second door on the left...

If you have been as good to me as I have to you.. Can I wash your feet too??

nough said by me..

BTW that book is a good read...

if that's what a guy is into, as long as you are upfront with the provider and she is cool with it, by all means it is your dime.
I personally like treating the lady very well and taking care of all her needs in addition to her tending to mine.  Nothing gives me more pleasure than knowing the lady I'm with is enjoying the session as much or more than me.
But that is me - to each their own.  Just make sure you are upfront about what you want and whatever it is there is likely a provider that will cater to that.

If a bump on a log gets his nut and a wash cloth from an escort, that's HER choice and SHE is in charge.  If he thinks he's in control of her, he's as dumb as the strip club john who thinks he's in control of the dancers.

That said, there's an obligation to return consideration when you accept money, and that should take the form of whatever reasonanble service the customer desires.  Just because he's an asshole, you shouldn't withhold what you agreed to sell him, which is whatever is his idea of pleasure.

NikkiGreedy, I'm your biggest fan, but I fear the SRS surgery missed your gladiator gland.  Don't fight the problem; you'll be happier that way.  Just remind yourself that providing is not dating.

Well thank you for being a 'fan'...

But I am not in this to be "a piece of meat"...
After all what I am providing is my TIME to be available to those I meet..
That time has consisted of everything from a simple coffee date through hardcore consensual adult lawful carnal knowledge of one another..

I don't fight problems I screen to avoid them..
If I have a visitor and we ain't clicking then we ain't ticking and like most providers out there I have ways of moving things along to a 'quick' close..
But when we click we tick and I like those to go a very long time..

If I were in the game to make fast bucks as a 'piece of meat' I would have rock bottom prices, skip deep screening and see every "Tom, Dick and  Sam" who came my way.. But that is not what I am about.. Nor will I take treatment as such - I don't have too...

If I wanted to do all the "work" I never would have transitioned!  

I'm a girl - that means I get the bottom and you boys have to ride on top and burn calories. But I like to buck a lot!

BUT, sometimes I'll climb on and ride 'em cowboy!  But I'm still the girl and I believe girls should be subservient to their men.  Unless of course the guy is paying for a Domme to make him be a sissy boy.

Giggle,
TS Jamie