I've been seeing the occasional TS escort for about a year or so now and I do really enjoy it. But there is one aspect of the TS provider culture I need to comment on. Bigger (in my book) does not equal Better. I am not looking to get my ass torn up. I do not want a 9, or 10, or 11 inch monster plunging my depths. I do like a good pounding, but from a nice moderate size stick (5 or 6 or at the most 7 and on the slimmer side preferred). However, based on reviews and on the phrasing of providers ads, it seems like I am in the minority. I'd like to see a provider ad that was phrased along the lines of "Don't worry, you will still be able to walk normally back to work after our appointment."

Just my 2 cents.

First up, when someone is discussing their own tastes & preferences there is not "right" or "wrong" here.  By definition you are "right" about what you like and don't like.  No harm no foul.  Taht said though, you pose a question to the board so presumably you welcome feedback.

It's not clear from what you have said wether or not you have actually tried "big".  I used to think pretty much along the same lines as you have indicated.  I preferred to see girls who had smaller clits.  That was until one day when my favs were all unavailable and I tried "Alondra" (San Diego).  She's about 9" and quite thick.  I almost thought I should cancel out when I saw it fully erect, thinking that thing would ruin me.

I was really worked up by that point though and just asked her if she could take it REALLY easy at first.  She said no problem and applied lots of lube and ever so gently slid just the tip in at first to let me get used to it.  I have to admit that it did hurt for a few moments at first but then it started to feel nice.  I was on my knees on the edge of the bed as she stood behind me so I could move my hips back  and forth to have some measure of control.  Slowly she began to move in deeper in tiny increments and of course it hurt for a bit each step.  Funny thing is though, before I knew it, she was buried all the way in and I was pushing my ass up against her, wishing there was more still  

Eventually she turned me over on my back and put my legs up over her shoulders and began pounding the hell out of me.  She must have seen the ecstatic smile on my face because she didn't let up.  She grabbed my cock and was stroking me the whole time.  I actually came twice while she was sledgehammering  me.  

I'm not saying that I'm right or you're wrong.  Just offering another perspective...

PS:  Unfortunately "Alondra" seems to have vanished (retired?  moved away?  got a boyfriend?) and is sadly missed around San Diego.)

For my taste the 5-7 inch slim jims poke my postate and it can be very painfull. I have found that the long cock trannys slide past the prostate and dont hurt as bad.  Take Vanilla and Jordan from SD Eros that are so long that it only hurts for a second or two and then its gr8 because they are past the prostate wehre as the likes of Lola Malone and karen Kumminge feel the best because their dicks are fat AND long and I can feel it sliding  against the prostate but not poking or driving into it. Then you have the likes of Holly Monroe and Lola from Manhattan that are so horny hard and aggressive that u want them to hurt you a bit. I have no explanation for Leather on Eros NY. Her fat cock was just a mind blowing experience....she was not long enough to slide past but Really fat and should have hurt but didn't. Leather is an INCREDIBLE top....and It was different from most tranny tops the way she would ram it up in me balls deep and then pull it all the way out and then balls deep over and over again until she got her nut and was satisfied. I wish more top gurls were so selfish and just used me for their pleasure and didnt care what i wanted or if it only took her 5 minutes to cum.

I like them big! I wish they all could be like Lola Malone, eight inches, thick and hard as a rock.

I am very inexperienced at being topped. It has only happened about five times in my life, and always some distance apart. So for me, if a cock is too thick, I simply can't take it.

Equally, because its hard to get inside me (I am tight) too short doesn't work either.And while I have never had a really long one, it just looks painful.

So at the risk of making this story sound like goldilocks and the three bears, I find 6-7 inches, hard, and not too thick to be "just right". It gets in, stimulates the right places, and does not cause any non-fun pain.

Nadia fits the bill perfectly (and fit me perfectly), and she also has the perfect mix of "take control attitude" without being a dominatrix.

But I'd be interested in who else people think have these physical and psychological attributes.

I tend to enjoy both sides of this fence. There are times that I truly love to have someone huge like Lolal Malone or Meghan Cavalier, but that is not always what I am looking for.

On the other hand the two encounters that I have had with TS Allison in DC have been outstanding. She is no where near the size of the other ladies, but really knows what she is doing and knows how to ensure that your enjoying what she is doing.

I'm a novice but I've already figured out I'm not a big fan of being a bottom (at least not yet...keeping an open mind)...I like anal play but not interested in the pounding that some folks get in their reviews here. They know what they like and I'm glad they are getting it...some of the reviews are damn hot too but not my cup of tea. But I do agree that a lot of the ads really seem to push size and dominance of the ladies...I figure that just means that is what is in demand...and as a business person you conform to the market...smart business. I'm interested in those petite very feminine ladies that are functional as I enjoy oral and want them to have a good time if they like to be pleased that way. But for me, I think anything over 6 inches is unnecessary and much beyond that might scare me  

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If your preference is for 5 or 6 inch cocks, don't worry. The providers claiming 9 or 10 inches have just what you want.

Bigger is always better. For competitive males you start small 5-6, then you get curious you shoot for alittle bigger 7-8 and when you have the time of your life, you say well maybe I can try a 9, then its a 10+++++.  Good providers are hard to find, but VO, Carmen and Jordan all come to mind. You are in a non rush, can chat with them and then when you see the prize, its go time. I have to put lola Malone on my list it sounds