Yeah thanks for all the replies guys it really helps.
Not only would it be my first time with a service like this it would be my first time with a TS as well. Im really into women but as many guys I have my online porn stash. The whole TS thing just makes me crazy sometimes on some of the videos because its ridiculous how hot some of them look. I don't want to get fucked thats for sure. It's just not my thing, I like to be the one doing the fucking and being the dominant one. I just kind of see the ones online, and imagine about it too, but I just kind of see them as women that I can 'see' are aroused lol. I don't think id be afraid with touching all the body parts but as far as me being on the bottom, nah.
The one i had the extended phone call was kind of aggressive on the phone but its funny because her ad states shes a bottom. However, most of the reviews Ive seen are from guys who get fucked by her and I'm assuming thats because they're open to that. I'm assuming also she gets alot of guys who are submissive. As in my OP, I really fumbled in my opening talking to her because after asking if it was her and telling her i saw the ad I just kind of blanked about what I wanted to say or do. I guess I just figured shed be able to tell it was my first time but after my intro I started fumbling and she jumped on my case right away with 'oh stop with your drama, you know I'm going to rape you!' It was so over the top I just laughed. I mean does LE talk like that over the phone? haha.
Anyways, I was thinking if I did call her back I would basically state my case. First time, with a TS also, and would see if I could just come in talk and see what shes like because I'm not sure if id actually want to be with one for real. Ha I know it sounds kind of plain but she did post in her ad that honesty is very appreciated. I'd compensate her for her time that wouldn't be an issue. I guess I won't know until I ask.
I think my gut is all in knots just because I'm already a paranoid guy sometimes. Both of the ones I'm looking at are well reviewed and pretty decently rated and the several of the reviewers have tons of other reviews.