Hello RichardStans,
Well, I do agree with your comments or at least can relate.  The strange thing was I picked up an LA Express (adult LA Rag) and was checking out the ads.  The paper has more ts ads than biological female ads.  I decided to check out the females and I saw a few ads that looked like transexuals to me.  I thought, I wonder if they are post op and now advertising as female?  I once saw a TS girl in Studion City and then found her contact info about a year later. She remembered me and I went over.  Well, no more bulge in the panties and she had the surgery.  I personally feel the ts/post op tgirl should be up front but many of them do not.  Also, some will still post their ads under the TS section but not mention they are now female.   So, there is no right or wrong answer or general theme because it varies.  If I want to see a female, I do not look for ts/post op ads but female and if I want to see a TS, then I look in that section.  
I am not sure how post op pussies are suppose to feel but I once took a trip to Amsterdam and when I was with this very very sexy and hot female, Her vagina did not feel like a real vagina, just a hole that had lots of lube in it.  I think she was a post op.

My opinion, find a very hot hot hot, feminine ts girl who is pre-op and go have fun.  You will find that they are more than feminine and have the most powerful super sex charged drive that will make you want to come back.

Good luck.

Got a surprise today when the provider I went to see turned out to be TS.  I decided to go thru with it bcs I was there, had already written off the cost in my mind, and I guess bcs I was curious.  Boobs seemed real & she had some girly curves, but the face, hands and feet looked male to me.  Pussy looked good, but didn't taste like pussy (or anything).  I'm old enough now that my body doesn't always do what my mind wants it to, and if I'm not really attracted to somebody it just doesn't work, which was what happened here.

So I guess what I want to know is isn't there an etiquette to the whole TS/TG thing?  I'm all for people doing whatever they need to do to feel right about themselves, and if that involves surgery its fine by me--but when I'm hiring a provider I'm looking for somebody with all original equipment.  Shouldn't providers let us know if they are TS/TG?  There's obviously a market for TS/TG providers, and if that's your thing then great, but it's not for me & I'd like to know that before going to all that trouble.

Your thoughts?

I think by the girl not disclosing she is a Post Op she's taking a big risk.  There are men out there that do not take deception lightly. I think She absolutely should say she is a Post op especially when escorting.  Maybe she's desperate for money and hopes the guy is too horny to walk away.

You never know who is going to show up and I totally agree.  It may be some backwards bubba who goes crazy if he figures it out....good point.

i have talked to some that say after the surgery or when they get it they consider themselves full fledged females.  period.  not saying it's right but that's how they believe.   and maybe it's their right.

anyway i agree with dog.  go find a preop and have some fun.