This past week I was at the local TS friendly bar in Boston and connected with a lady that I'd met in the past...she talked about how nice I was to her when last we met and she said she wanted to see me again, etc, etc.  When she saw me she walked away from a couple of other guys she was with and made the shift to come talk to me.

Long and short of it, we leave to go to her place...she is telling me where to go and said that she needed to stop to see a friend...I asked her what for and she said you don't want to know...so of course, I insist on knowing...and she was right - I didn't want to know...she was buying drugs.  I told her that I wasn't comfortable with that, etc.  We were in the Chinatown area of Boston which is an area where guys alone in a car at night are often seen as johns and I didn't need the headache...she said she just needed to run inside to the apartment and see her friend...again, I said I wasn't comfortable but she continued, so I stopped.

I'm parked on the side of the street in a "notorious" area and a patrol cruiser pulls up behind me.  I tell myself to count to 30 and if she isn't back in that time, I'm going to leave.  The count hit 30 and I left.  In hindsight, the cop probably had nothing to do with me being there but I had had a few drinks, I'm in the wrong area late at night and I just kind of lost my cool...Don't want to explain on the homefront what I was doing in Chinatown at midnight if I did get questioned, etc.

As I've reflected on the scene I have a few thoughts:

1.  I feel badly for leaving her there - but she was seeing a "friend" and probably could manage to get out of there fine - but I still feel badly - she may have given up other opportunities to spend some time with me.

2.  Obviously, she won't want to see me again, which sucks b/c she is attractive and provides great service and told me that she enjoyed me so much that night was going to be extra special...can only imagine.

3.  I don't know what I'll say/do if I go back to that bar - I feel like a total dick and won't be able to make eye contact and even worse, I would hate to have conflict there - I'm thinking I'll just avoid the place for quite some time...which stinks, b/c there are no other similar bars in the area (at least that I know of).

So...what do you all think?  I should have probably just said no that I wouldn't stop there and if she wanted to "date" me that night she'd have to do that some other time...but I didn't...