Okay, what would you guys do ?

An attractive married woman -- VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN mind y'all -- is hitting on a friend like no tomorrow, almost to the point of stalking him through her daily visits to his job, phone calls, and emails. She claims it's purely an attraction thing, and she has not minced words to let him know what would transpire sexually if they should ever get together. This woman is hotter to have sex than a two-bit pistol in other words. The problem is that she is married, but she claims that the marriage is there only for the kids sake, and that her and her husband haven't been intimate in years. In fact, her and her husband still reside under the same roof. She's promised to keep the sexual tryst as surreptitious as possible for not only her kids and her husband, but also for her standing in the community. She claims all she wants to do is have the fun she never got because of the early marriage and the kids, and feels she's not going to get any younger. The woman is very, very attractive, and my friend recognizes that these coveted opportunities don't come too often. In fact, he's never had anything like this happen to him, but he also can't help but wonder if he and the woman could actually keep it under the radar, and also not get emotionally attached (Did I mention this woman is extremely attractive, drawing gawks wherever she stands ?) to her should it go more than once. He also wonders if he could live with himself at peace should he go through with it and their affair is exposed, possibly ruining what they have going on at home. What becomes of her husband, her kids ?

She's not really married is she ? And it sounds so easy so ???



Your thoughts, opinions, concerns, questions ???

Along with being very, VERY attractive (Did I mention that before ?), she is also very bright (college educated), and has a lovely sweet demure personality not found too often.

I feel like I'm describing part of the plot from something from the Lifetime Channel.

-- Modified on 10/24/2005 11:48:20 PM

Send her my email address, friend`s problem solved.

if he doesn't do it.  So with that in mind, I would let go of the guilt issue with the husband and kids and go primal.

LOL! Simple solution is not so simple ... Would you really want this in your lap ?

Well, damn, sure .. she could sit in my lap, or on my face ..

Would almost any guy want a babe that's trying to get a lot of "catch-up" sex? Duh. One that has the sex drive that maybe my wife lost?

Of course there is the risk of the emotional attachment happening even though it may be stated as "no strings attached", but a lot of guys would risk it.

P - This hot lady seems to conform to several attributes that I know you yourself admire, so while your friend wrestles with his conscience I think you should make your own move on her. That's exactly what I would do if I was either one of you guys.

Hell send her my way...I'll take care of it!

That's what I was thinking. If it isn't me (Oops!), it will be someone else getting all the goodies, but there is just so much involved. Everything from obviously getting caught possibly, to their proximity (they live so close) to my place.
... I received another email this morning telling me she'll put the brakes on the flirting until she comes to some understanding at home ... What can that possibly mean ? That she's going to confront her husband about the prospect of seeing other men ?

And, yes, Dave, it would be very easy to go primal with her. There is a lot there let me tell you.

Now this might not be popular, but I'm going to advise against. I had a very similar thing happen to me years ago and I decided "what the hell" and went for it. The sex was great and the adrenaline from sneaking around made it even more intense.

Then I got a call at 2 AM one morning. A drunken guy was asking if Cheryl was there and things just devolved from there. I hung up on the guy when he told me to watch my back because he was coming for me. The next morning I decided to break it off. I started feeling like shit that I was breaking up a family (even though she was the aggressor) and I just didn't want that on my conscience. Let someone else carry that weight.

Just because she's telling you the situation doesn't mean that it's the truth.

Not sure if you believe in karma, but years later my wife did the same thing to me. While there were many reasons why the marriage failed, I kind of laughed at the irony.