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when should you trust a new provider ?
tsluva 9 Reviews 1448 reads
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as customer clients, i know we all must get so frustrated with so many fake ads & pics scammers. There seems to be no end in sight with this game. It hurts the escort provider too, both the new and longtime,experienced ones, who these scam-girls will steal their photos and try to impersonate them on their misleading ads.(and i've burned like that)

i've heard it said here a many times over to only trust the escorts with good reviews. My question is what about the new girls that legitimately are trying to establish themselves as good providers?
So when can you trust a new provider ?
when should you trust a new provider ?
Even the more established,good review ones had to start out as newbies.

i think the ones that will have the most difficult time with this fake ad/scam is the new girls. i recently discovered a local escort (and now considering another one) and she turned out quite well for me. And later on wrote a TER review on her. Now she is one of my regulars.

when should you trust a new provider to meet her?

tsCAT99990 reads

Yes, it's a catch-22.  There are a number of new girls with the potential to become great providers, and the scammers are really hurting them, too.  Yet another reason why I take such a hard line with fake providers.

As far as trusting a new provider, I honestly can't say what indicators there are.  Scammers are good at lying and manipulating, and basically acting like they are honest.  Clients can then become quite pessimistic.

This sort of ill-will is a backlash that new girls are unjustifiably hit with.  I mean, how many bad experiences does it take before we lose our optimism?

So, new girls have quite a hurdle to overcome.  In addition, they have another kind of challenge: jerk-clients.

Stalkers, arrogant jerks, abusive and lying clients are some real show-stoppers for new girls.  Having enough of those in a row can really cause one to question whether or not there are any good people out there.  The negative influence from these terrible experiences can drive a girl toward fake ads, too.

Or, the girl might respond with more gusto and character to not let the world of rotten people to make 'em cave in to hate.  It's potentially character-building.

Ultimately, the responsibility lies with us.  Each of you have a decision to make: will you go see or not see?  The ultimate responsibility lies with you.

If you go see a girl who turns out to be a scammer with fake photos, don't blame all providers.  We all, more than likely, have had or will have that moment when the door opens, and it's somebody else.

By choosing to risk seeing a new girl (or even an "experienced" one with fake photos), well, we accept the responsibility for OUR ACTIONS.

If she is a fake, will you walk away?

Please do.

The honest girls--new and experienced--are counting on you, boys, to do the right thing.

-- Modified on 2/13/2010 7:22:04 AM

thanks for your input, Cat.
i was kinda thinking i was all alone with the approach to new girls.

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